Start Off on the Right Foot
What? 2011 Already?
Clearly this is one of those "We're getting old" things. You stand in stunned amazement that another year has come and gone and that somehow you're looking at the start of 2011. In fact, already running flat out, the holidays all but forgotten.It's hard to believe that when you were four, you used to say you were four and three-quarters, because that final 3/4 mattered.
May it be an edgy year
I had "awesome year" there initially, but crossed it out for two reasons:
1. I'm definitely over-using the word "awesome". And I'm not alone. So let's all calm down on the "awesome" front.
2. "Awesome" to me seems focused on results, and outcomes can be beyond your control. Last October, my best friend - a young, fit man - died overnight and completely unexpectedly of a heart attack leaving his wife and a two-year old son, my godson. Another friend went through the most miserable of divorces. Things like that just stop years "Being Awesome" no matter what you're doing.
But edgy ... now that feels like something to think about, something to strive for. Because it's about how you get there, not what's at the end. And you get to control the extent to which you step out beyond the comfortable middle - Good Work let's call that - and move towards the Great Work edge.
Two Ingredients To Get Edgy
Ingredient #1. Inspiration (in 48 seconds + 11 words)
Just click on the poster above to see the movie.
(And please pass the movie along to another person or two who might enjoy it or put it on your own blog.)
Why these 11 words? Well, they felt juicy and interesting to me.
Savour
Slow down and enjoy what's most precious about your life.
Laugh
Why so serious?
Explore
Step to the edges and hang out there a little.
Rest
You, me, we're all sleep-deprived. Grab an extra hour.
Proclaim
Stand for something. Draw a line in the sand.
Discard
You've got clutter online, offline, mentally, emotionally. Purge.
Embrace
Who you are. Reality. Opportunities. Your shadow. Friends.
Partner
Build something with someone else.
Provoke
Poke the status quo and see what wobbles.
Love
Spread the net a little wider.
Flow
Find grace and ease.
Something to do right now
You can borrow these words, or find one or two or three words of your own. Use them as the springboard into something fabulous.
And if you want, share your own words for 2011 here by adding a comment below the movie.
Ingredient #2: A little time
But inspiration isn't enough. And before it's suddenly July and you're freaking out about where the first half of the year went, give yourself some time and space to think about 2011.Here are five big questions that will help:
1. What do you want?
2. What needs to change?
3. What are you committed to?
4. Where will you focus?
5. What will you stop/eliminate/remove?
I don't really mind what planning or strategizing tools] you might use, but I do mind if you don't give yourself some time off to actually think about this.
And make no mistake, it takes time. Give that to yourself. Get away from distractions and emails and the annoying mosquitos of everyday life.
Something to do right now
Book 30 minutes away from your desk and your usual routine to dream a little about 2011.
Don't Take My Word For It (bumper edition)
Smart people thinking out loud about the future.C. S. Lewis, writer
Simone de Beauvoir, philosopher
Albert Einstein, scientist
Coco Chanel, designer
Yogi Berra, sportsman
E. B. White, writer
Gloria Steinem, activist
Horace, poet
Zora Neale Hurston, writer
Steven Wright, comedian
Lady Gaga, musician
It was all in an effort to support Habitat for Humanity - and I'd love your support.
Watch the video, and if you're so moved, pledge $10 or $20 or $50 or whatever you'd like to give.
Thank you.
and Happy New Year!


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