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Hello!Hope you are enjoying your summer wherever you may be. One of my favorite things to do late each evening... is to spend a few quiet minutes on our deck, listening to the sounds of nature and appreciating the peace. As caregivers, it is so important to carve out those special moments just for us. I'd love to hear some of the ways you spend your special moments. Join our community on Facebook's 'Transition Aging Parents' and share!
On to our ezine....
Our featured article today is about 'Medication Therapy Management.' I decided to do a re-post of this popular article after my recent BlogTalkRadio interview with Susan Torrico. Susan is pharmacist and founder of a amazing service, OnTimeRX. Be sure to check my website on Tuesday when my new blog post will highlight Susan's great tips about how to ensure our parents take their medications at the right time. Susan's tips will help you no matter how complex your parent's medication regimen is!
Also, don't miss the line-up of guests/topics on my BlogTalkRadio show. And, in our Media Review, there's a YouTube video that shows the way an Elder Law attorney helps a woman who is overwhelmed as caregiver to her husband with Alzheimer's.
If you've not checked my new book out, you can hear me talk about it on Missy Buchanan's "Aging with Faith" (08/24) and Susan Baida's "Empowering Family Caregivers" (08/30) BlogTalkRadio shows. I take listenters through all 5 steps of the ADAPT method and explain how it can help adult daughters and sons as they guide their parents through change and crisis. To listen to archived recordings, click here.
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you and your parent(s) as you journey together,
Dale
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Featured Article
"How 'Medication Therapy Management' Can Help You and Your Aging Parent"
Earlier this year I
had the privilege of attending the presentation, "Engaging the Older Patient in
Medication Management" given by Linda M. Strand, pharmacist and professor.
Linda's presentation turned my preconceived notion of the "medication
management" problem upside down and on its head. I truly believed it had
to due with lack of adherence. Not so! Linda told us that 80%
of drug therapy problems were NOT due to drug
adherence. But, there is good news. There is a service (reimbursable
by Medicare D) that can help enormously...Medication Therapy Management
(MTM). However, the public and healthcare/eldercare
professionals need to know it exists.
Linda told us that 1/3
Americans take more than 5 medications. Also, older adults often have
multiple physicians and may go to multiple pharmacies. Without a service
like MTM, there is no comprehensive oversight to manage a person's medications.
Consider the consequences of this lack of management: the
possibility of drug interactions, ineffective drugs (due to low dosage...), the
patient's lack of knowledge of how to take the drugs or inability to take the
drugs.
In Medication Therapy Management, MTM, a pharmacist works
together with the patient, caregiver, and other health professionals to
"promote the safe and effective use of medications and help patients achieve
the targeted outcomes from medication therapy." (www.pharmacist.com)
How do I find
Medication Therapy Management (MTM) for my parent?
Check with your local medical-based university
or healthcare center.
Is it reimbursable by
Medicare?
Some insurance plans cover MTM.
Medicare D mandates it for certain patients.
The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services
(CMS) targets those who have multiple chronic diseases, are taking multiple
Part D drugs and are likely to incur annual costs of $3,000+ for covered Part D
drugs. I like it that the individual must choose to opt-out.Hopefully
the opt-out feature raises the level of awareness of the service.
My suggestions for an
adult child of an elderly parent:
Educate yourself about the value of MTM by
speaking with your parent's pharmacist or primary care physician.
Determine the best provider of MTM for your parent
(based on program and cost).
Schedule the service and accompany your
parent. Our aging parents really need our advocacy and support when it
comes to the overwhelming world of drugs.
I hope this information
helps. If your aging parent has actually used this service and you wish to share your experience, please post to my Facebook Fan Page. Thank you!
Media Review -
"Alzheimer's Caregiver and Elder Law Attorney: A Team Approach"
Thanks to Steve Gurney (publisher at Retirement-Living) for sharing the following YouTube video. It's a compelling discussion by an Alzheimer's caregiver (the spouse) about how an Elder Law attorney helped her. The caregiver had been able to care for her husband at home for 7 years, and finally realized she could do so no longer. She had a two week period to find the solution. See how the attorney helped her. Click here.
BlogTalkRadio Show Interviews (4 confirmed shows for August)
Archived recordings of previous interviews and the live show can be found at:
August 3rd: Aging Parent: Keeping the Family Connected
Susan Baida and John Mills, cofounders of eCareDiary, join me to discuss how to keep the family connected while caring for an aging parent. They will share how their personal experinece motivated them to create a sit with information, tools and resources that help families coordinate and share information with their loved one. Click here.
August 10th: Parent with Alzheimer's? Learn how the Validation Technique Can Help You Communicate
Carrie Gallahan, Executive Director of Blair Ridge Assisted Living and certified Validation Technique trainer, will be my guest. Carrie is passionate about the Validation Technique, helping families and professionals to reach through to those in any stage of Alzheimer's. The exciting part is that if this technique is used in early stages of Alzheimer's, the late stage can be avoided. Click here.
August 17th:Generational Conflict with Your Aging Parent - Why and What Now?
Barbara Friesner (founder of AgeWiseLiving) will be my guest. She will tell us what generational conflicts are and why they happen. Barbara will draw upon her own personal experience and coaching practice, to share tips, strategies and resources for families. Click here.
August 24th - "Happiness is Growing Old at Home"
Maria Tadd, author of the book, "Happiness is Growing Old at Home", will be my guest. Click here.
Where's Dale?
August 24th. I will be interviewed by Missy Buchanan on her "Aging and Faith" BlogTalkRadio show. Click here.
August 30th. I will be interviewed by Susan Baida on her "Empowering Family Caregivers" BlogTalkRadio show Click here.
September 15, 22, 29th - I will be presenting a 3 part series workshop, "Transitioning Your Aging Parent: The ADAPT method" at the Alzheimer's and Dementia Foundation, South Bend, Indiana.
October 25th. I will be presenting "Five Wishes" as part of the Community Seminar for Baby Boomers at Holy Cross College, Notre Dame, Indiana.
If you know of any organizations seeking a speaker about aging parents, please email me at dale.carter@transitionagingparents.com
"Transitioning Your Aging Parent: A 5 Step Guide Through Crisis & Change" (my new book)
"Transitioning Your Aging Parent: A 5 Step Guide Through Crisis & Change" is published and now available.
I wrote this book to help adult children and families navigate the many changes their aging parents will face. In the book, I share a new framework, ADAPT, developed from my personal experience, my background as an educator and project manager, and a sincere desire to help families and their aging parents. In reading this book, you will learn how to use the framework, apply specific strategies, and seek out appropriate resources that are right for your their situation. Personal stories are woven throughout to illustrate the concepts.
Join me as I share what I learned in helping my own mother navigate crisis and change to renewed health and happiness.
Discover how to approach any change or crisis in your parent's life with clarity and confidence.
Discover how this new framework will guide you in making the right decisions for your parent while balancing your own personal needs and family responsibilities.
Advance Praise
It's
almost as though you took all my years of training and managed to put order to
it. The ADAPT method of caregiving will decrease stress and give great
comfort to families in the eldercare world. My fear is that we can't
get it out to people fast enough.
~ P.K. Beville,
M.S.
Founder, Second
Wind Dreams & Geriatric Specialists
Author, Virtual Dementia Tour Series
This deceptively small book is one that every adult
with a parent should read. It skillfully guides you step by step through the
process of helping your parent's transition. It's full of helpful resources for
you and your parent. It will be a lifesaver in a time of crisis, but I
recommend you don't wait until then. Get the book now and follow Dale Carter's
ADAPT method to prepare you and your parent for the inevitable changes ahead.
~ Debra Joy, CEO, Bcelebrated
For those entering the
unchartered waters as a caregiver, Transitioning Your Aging Parent: A 5 Step
Guide Through Crisis & Change is an
invaluable life raft. Dale Carter provides readers with a framework to help
create solutions for the most complex family challenges. The book outlines
countless resources and creative ideas to help the most frazzled caregiver
reduce guilt and offer the freedom to help spend more quality time with their
loved ones.
~ Steve Gurney, Publisher,
Guide to
Retirement Living SourceBook
Whether you are a business
professional trying to help your aging parents, a long distance caregiver or a
stay-at-home caregiver, you need Transitioning Your Aging Parent:
A 5 Step Guide Through Crisis & Change. Dale's
ADAPT Method provides a step-by-step plan which changes overwhelming situations
into manageable ones. My favorite part of the ADAPT Method is that
it balances respecting our aging parent while understanding the needs of the
caregiver. Thank you Dale for creating a straightforward, quick-to-read
guidebook for helping our parents transition through the aging process.
~ Viki Kind, MA
Author, The Caregiver's Path to
Compassionate Decision Making -
Making Choices for Those Who Can't
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Dale
Carter is
wife, mother of 3 grown children, and long-distance caregiver to her
elderly
mother. She is a former educator and university IT consultant. In
the spring of 2008, a major life experience (helping her elderly mother
through
a major health/life crisis) changed the course of Dale's life work.
Dale
created
"Transition Aging Parents" as a way to share her experience and reach
out to other adult children of aging parents. She provides insight and
shares information to help adult daughters and sons ensure their aging
parents
"thrive and find joy" in every stage of life.
Her
goal is
two-fold: to serve as a resource for adult children as they help their
aging
parents through the many transitions in aging AND to highlight this time
in
their journey together as one of joy, renewed bonds and reflection of
lives
well-lived.
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