By Susan P. Joyce
Rats! You've received the dreaded "thank-you-for-your-interest-but..." letter, and you are very surprised. The interviews went really well! You liked all (or most) of the people you met there, and it seemed that they liked you, too.
But, you were the number 2 or number 3 candidate. Close, but no
cigar... Dang!
What now? Move on to the next opportunity, right? Of course. But first...
If you really liked the people, the location, and the organization, try turning that rejection letter on its head! Convert it into an
opportunity. Maybe. It happens more often than you think!
Send a Thank You Note
Hopefully, you wrote thank you notes to the interviewers after the job interviews. (Right?)
Ask yourself: Would I want to be considered when another opportunity opens there?
IF you really did like the people you met and if it seemed like a place you would be happy working, send a nice thank you note to the hiring manager, the recruiter, and everyone else who was in the interview process.
If you did NOT like them, and don't really want to work there, don't bother.
In 2014, I posted a version of this article on LinkedIn with this headline: The Biggest Mistake After a Job Rejection. If you think the thank-you-for-rejecting-me
note is a crazy idea, read all the comments from people for whom this strategy worked!