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: Bright Ideas Blogzine May '09 Sent Friday, May 22, 2009 View as plaintext
Issue #9                                                                                                                                                    May 2009
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If you've visited my Web site recently, you discovered that my business name has changed (from He Blogs, She Blogs) to Blogging Bistro. The former Web site will soon disappear into cyberspace, replaced by the fresh, new BloggingBistro.com.

I'm adding content to the site daily; stop by the Bistro regularly to see what's new:

Ask Your Barista
Have a question about blogging or social media? Just e-mail it to the Blogging Barista (that's me) - laura@bloggingbistro.com. Every week on the Bistro blog, I'll respond to a question. This week's question comes from John in California:

What are the pros and cons of integrating a blog into a Web site versus having a Web site, and hosting your blog at another site (such as Blogger.com or Typepad.com)?

Success Stories

If you haven't heard of Susan Boyle during the last month, you're probably living on another planet. This 47-year-old unemployed Scottish woman experienced a meteoric rise to fame when she stepped out of her comfort zone and followed a dream.

I'll be showcasing other regular folks who are pursuing their passions in my new feature section: "Success Stories."

I'd love to feature you! Just send me a brief description of what you're doing to chase a dream.

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The Blogging Bistro offers an extensive menu to satisfy your Internet marketing cravings.  From Happy Hour specials to Gourmet combos, we dish up made-to-order services that fit your budget. Can't find exactly what you want on the menu? Just ask the Blogging Barista for a complimentary 15-minute consultation. We'll discuss your needs and create a custom package just for you.  Make your reservation now: laura@bloggingbistro.com.

Inspiration for Writers

A week ago I had the privilege of teaching at the Northwest Christian Writers Renewal Conference. During one session, editors from nine publishing houses participated in a panel discussion. No matter how many "editor panels" I attend, I always come away inspired.


Whether you're a blogger, an author, or a business professional, I trust you'll find a useful nugget among the panelists' quotes:
Here's a related story at Blogging Bistro:
5 Things They Don't Warn You About in the Writers' Conference Brochure


Body Language Lessons
Have you caught the hit CBS series, The Mentalist? Every Tuesday at 9 p.m., the charming (and slightly irritating) Patrick Jane (Simon Baker) uses his finely-tuned powers of observation to help his friends at the California Bureau of Investigation catch bad guys. Jane's uncanny ability to read the nuances of others' body language enables him to uncover clues that the CBI agents completely overlook. 

Our eyes, face, gestures, posture, appearance, and voice reveal more about us than we imagine. An awareness of your own body behavior--and that of others--will help you to become a more effective communicator.

In The Costco Connection (May 2009), Harvey Meyer offers tips for how to read body language:

Eyes
  • Where do you direct your focus when you're talking with someone?
  • Do you make good eye contact? (indicates confidence)
  • Do you gaze off into the distance? (indicates you're thinking or processing)
  • Do your eyes dart all over the room? (indicates nervousness or uncertainty)
  • Do you avert your eyes? (a sign of submissiveness)
  • How often do you blink? Rapid blinking indicates anxiety and attentiveness. Controlled blinking (slower and with longer eye closure than spontaneous blinking) can be associated with deception.
  • Do your pupils dilate? When you're excited, happy, or engaged in problem-solving activities, your pupils enlarge noticeably.
Feet
  • How do you position your feet when you're standing and talking with someone? Pointing your feet near or towards the other person indicates you have positive feelings toward them; pointing the tootsies away from the person while facing them is a sign of discomfort.
Body postures that convey confidence and authenticity
  • Practice exhibiting an open body posture:
  • Fluid gestures that move in harmony with your voice
  • Torso and feet facing your listeners
  • Shoulders back and head up
  • Palms up or open
  • Animated face
Your assignment:

For the next five days, monitor and record your body behavior. List one body language habit you'd like to change. The following week, focus on "upgrading" that particular body behavior.

Share your progress with us! info@bloggingbistro.com

 

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