To Reach Your Highest Potential, Start From Your Strengths
I just read a wonderful book called Unique Ability: Creating The
Life You Want, by Catherine Nomura, Julia Waller, and Shannon Waller. The
book is about identifying what makes us each unique and then sharing that
ability with the world. It is about discovering our unique gifts and then using
those to create our livelihood and life's work. For me, reading
this book reinforced what I've known and seen successfully demonstrated
throughout my 16 year career as an HR coach and consultant; that is, when we
work from our strengths and let our unique abilities shine through, we are most
successful. By doing this, we
thrive, and, in turn, those who work with us can also thrive. To reach our highest potential, we need
to start from our strengths.
Too often I see company leaders and even HR professionals
focused on helping employees with their "developmental
opportunities". They take a
lot of time to identify what is wrong with the employees or what skills they
are missing. They explore the
areas where they are lacking and then hone in on getting the employees
experiences or training so they can develop those "weak" areas. As an HR professional, I
understand why this is important. Companies
need to be sure employees are skilled enough to do the jobs which they were
hired to do; however, it is much easier to hire people who already are strong
in the areas required for the job and then work with them to leverage and build
upon those strengths.
I have seen many people successfully develop or grow in an
area where they were weak but that growth is often limited and may only last
for a short period of time.
Why? Because they are not
starting from their strengths and it can be an uphill climb for any of us to
develop in an area that does not come naturally or feel right to us. For example, when my friend, the
artist, asks for a recommendation on a course in creating Excel spreadsheets
(because she needs to learn Excel to help out with a family business), I can
accurately predict that she will complete the course, but highly doubt that
she'll retain what she learns. Why
not? Because she is being pushed to do something that is against her
grain. It is counter to her unique
ability and it is almost certain that even if she does learn a lot about
spreadsheets, she won't do it very well or, even worse, will do it
reluctantly. Yet, if you put
her in a course on advanced photograph development, she will thrive, soar and
excel because that is aligned with her unique gift.
When hiring employees, we should seek them out for their
unique abilities. Find out what
comes naturally to them and where they excel. There is a reason why some of us got outstanding grades in art
class as children and others did not.
There is a reason why some of us stood out in science class and became
doctors and others did not. When
we start from where we are strong and build upon that, we are already ahead of
the game. We are using our
strengths as a bouncing off place to excel even further. Forcing someone to develop in an area
where they are not strong, or, even worse, in an area that has no meaning to
them will be like paddling upstream in a very strong current. The whole idea with operating from our
strengths is to enable our unique ability to shine through. Instead of fighting
the current, we go with the current. We need to start from our strengths and watch how
naturally we can reach our highest potential.
Career Development Suggestion for February: What are your strengths and your unique abilities? Identify three of your strengths and decide how you will leverage these to grow in your career. Set an objective to do something that will leverage these strengths in the next 30 days.
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