Happy ChristmasSent Tuesday, December 25, 2012
a very short note to wish you a great day, lots of pressies and an even
had a late start this morning, but John is flitting between his office
and the kitchen keeping his eye on dinner and working.
my man, I'm afraid.
I'm about to go and soak in the bath for an hour or so with a glass or
three of wine and a good book.
have fun and remember to (mis)behave yourself, .
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Why I feel a bit of a 'turkey' right nowSent Monday, December 24, 2012
just picked up the Christmas Turkey... and then I discover something
about John I didn't know: he doesn't like turkey.
been together almost ten years... and I didn't know he didn't like
mean, he doesn't exactly hate
it... but he much, much prefers chicken.
my... I am mortified. I feel guilty now... and I feel even worse
because he's being so nice about it (worst or all... he's cooking
I really ought to have asked. But I […]
What are YOU getting for Christmas, ?Sent Monday, December 24, 2012
So, what are YOU getting for Christmas, ?
I think I know what I'm getting. At least, I know what I've asked for and from the size of the BIG box sitting under the tree, it looks like Santa has been listening.
And I know I know what John is getting... in more ways than one.
His wrapped pressies are what he's asked for.
His other is just a little gift from me -- he doesn't get to cum until my birthday at the end of January now. I was going to be […]
Why wait for chastity when you can have it now?Sent Sunday, December 23, 2012
you know what really bugs me about this time of year?
lots of things actually.
in terms of people's aspirations it's the way they free-wheel to the
end of the year and write-off the last two or three weeks with the
intention of starting afresh come January 1st.
are two problems with that.
Thefirst is they're wasting a fair
bit of time. If they coast for the last two weeks -- and many do -- then
they're actually wasting almost 4% of the year. As John's […]
The delights and dangers of cuckoldingSent Saturday, December 22, 2012
all the little quirks and peccadilloes tied up with chastity, cuckolding has got to be
one of the most difficult for women to get their heads around.
lot of men 'get' it, although the majority recognise it's either
something they don't agree with, for all sorts of reasons, or something
they know in their own minds they could never cope with.
in case you're not clear on what we mean when we talk about cuckolding
in the context of male chastity, it's when a chaste […]
Whom you REALLY need to be talking to about chastitySent Friday, December 21, 2012
no news to anyone I get a lot of questions about male chastity.
while the 80/20 rule manifests itself -- meaning 80% of the questions
are on just 20% of the things I get asked about -- there's one big
answer to most of them most people miss.
the men asking me the questions are asking the wrong person and trying
to start a conversation with the wrong person.
much of the time they're trying to engage me in a conversation they
The real deal with permanent chastitySent Thursday, December 20, 2012
get asked a lot about permanent orgasm denial. Not for me, obviously.
For John. This is an idea we've been kicking around for a while, as you
may know, especially since we discovered the delights of the strapon.
these questions are the sporadic but inevitable emails from people with
strong opinions but no experience or knowledge who somehow divine
through Revealed Knowledge this is something I am somehow forcing,
bullying or browbeating my husband to do.
The truth about chastity contractsSent Monday, December 17, 2012
you need one? Are they useful? What needs to go in one if you decide to
typical of the questions I get about them.
thing is, there's no right answer except for the one that works for both of you.
and I had one for a while (it's included as an Appendix at the end of Be Careful What You Wish For)
but for various reasons it kind of fell by the wayside, because John
has given me full control, meaning it can be boiled down to […]
True slavery... or just a game?Sent Sunday, December 16, 2012
Sometimes I really do have to wonder what's going on in people's heads.
Here's an extract of a message I had the other day from someone who is
no doubt sincere in what he's saying.
But the problem is his fantasy is so hopelessly divorced from any kind
of reality he'll never really get what he wants:
This is because she being my superior, I think getting turned on
sexually is a like showing huge disrespect. Even if I am asked for oral
servitude, I should think of […]