Your Weekly Success Tips: Let It Go!

Published: Mon, 07/21/14

SUCCESS TIPS: Solutions for Your Career, Your Business and Your Life!

  



 
I finally had the chance to watch the movie, Frozen (thanks to cable), and I can definitely see why it is so popular. Not only are the graphics and the characters likeable, the music is really catchy. I never paid much attention to the main song that has so caught on, but once I really paid attention to the lyrics in "Let it Go," I found it very inspiring.

The main character, for those who haven't seen it, has the power of turning everything to ice but it is really due to cutting herself off emotionally. She isolates herself in her own ice castle, which is when she sings the song, but the words and the message are about being true to herself and letting go of how she thinks she should be or what she thinks others expect her to be. How true is this for us all?
 
Letting go consists of:
  • the past - you can't change it
  • our own expectations - usually not as high as we think
  • our expectations of others - we can't change them
  • our expectations of the present - usually not what we 'think'
  • our expectations of the future - we can't predict, just plan for
Letting go of our memories and how we look at situations, while not easy, needs to be something we all strive to do if we want a satisfied life; if not, we will be right where we are now and regret that life in the future. If the past - or your view of it - is preventing you from moving forward in any area of your life, be it your career, your relationships, your business, etc. - then it is critical to make the decision and 'let it go.'
 
  • Whatever the situation or past memory that you can't seem to release, write it down in detail and what is causing you 'pain'
  • Now, rewrite that memory - or retell the story - as it was, without emotion. This is one of the major steps of forgiveness as it is our story (or version) that keeps us stuck in that situation
  • Release the need to keep that memory by saying you release it, burning the paper you wrote on, and reclaiming positivity for your future which includes the need to pretend, to be a victim, to be angry or sad, etc.

You have the ability and power to let go of anything that is holding you back from having all that you desire. It starts with making the decision to Let It Go!

 

Your Weekly Action Plan
 
If you are feeling frustrated with parts of your life, then decide this week that you deserve anything and everything you desire; decide to let go of anything or anyone that has held you back whether that is a real or a perceived belief. You no longer have to hold on to them!

I hope you have a successful week - If you need help gaining clarity on your business or career goals, or in developing your action plan, why not get some help - stop the struggle and call today to get started. I'd love to help you build the career and business of your dreams!
 
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Global Coaches Alliance (GCA):       
In working to raise the awareness of coaching and to bring great coaches to the world, I've decided to create an alliance  of coaches, starting here in Central Florida; I'm happy to announce the formation of Global Coaches Alliance (GCA).   If you are interested in attending, or would like more information, you can contact: [email protected].  
 
The next meeting of GCA will be held on Wednesday, August 20 from 11:30 - 1:00pm; we'll be back at The Egg and I in the Sodo District in downtown Orlando.  This month,  Come prepared to learn and share.  We are growing so be sure to spread the word and tell coaches that you know about the meeting  Hope to see you there!
 
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I am very excited to announce that the book I am a co-author in has been released.  It is called, Contagious Optimism, and it is available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or on the site www.lifecarrots.com.  It was a thrill for me to finally see the book in print, as it has been 3 years since I submitted my first article (I have 3 in the book); I went to Delray Beach for the book signing and met fellow coauthors and sign books.  Wow - what an experience! If you want to feel inspired and uplifted, then I encourage you to check out the book. 
 
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NOTE:  If you are not reading my blog, I highly recommend that you do; my blog was rated as one of the 100 Most Influential Blogs to Follow for 2013 - I am #47!   http://www.couponaudit.com/blog/top-100-life-coach-blogs-to-follow-in-2013-infographic/__________________________________________________________
 
If you're ready to rev-up your success factor, call today for a free discovery/strategy session to learn how. If you are interested in group coaching, call for information as to days/times.  
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