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Evelyn Kalinosky [Sacred Success] The Myth of the C-Suite Sent Wednesday, December 9, 2009 View as plaintext

Sacred Success
 
"When Your Profit Motive Is No Longer
Just About Money"

Issue #2, December 9, 2009


 
"It takes a long time to grow young." ~ Pablo Picasso

IN THIS ISSUE
Note from Evelyn
Featured Article: Yes Virgina, There is a Glass Ceiling: The Myth of the C-Suite
Teleclasses, Programs, Event:
Your Turning Point, Tuesday, January 12, 2010
 
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About Evelyn



Note from Evelyn Kalinosky
 
Hi there, !
 

Well, I'm officially on the other side of 50. Today's my birthday and I'm edging closer and closer to that next age bracket demographic advertisers love to plug us into. You know: the 55 - 64 category.  I've gotten used to hanging out here in the land of 45 - 54 with my varias mujeres. Oh well, I still have a few years left before my forced exile into the land of the 55+. Wonder if the view will be any different from there? If anything, I imagine it will be even better, since every step I've taken on this amazing journey has been magical. So, here's to me or as my pals in Colorado like to say: "Horns up!" and here's to you, my friends. The journey is the destination.

My best!

Evelyn

Evelyn Kalinosky, CRC
Founder & CEO
 
Yes Virgina, There is a Glass Ceiling: The Myth of the C-Suite

Part 1 of a 2-part series, today's article will look at the myth of the glass ceiling and what actually prevents women from making it into the C-suite. Part 2, which focuses on what can be done to overcome some of these obstacles, will run in the Dec 23 edition.

Despite years of progress by women in the workforce - they now occupy more than 40% of all managerial positions in the U. S. - within the C-suite they are by far more scarce. When you look at Fortune 500 companies, the most highly paid executives with titles such as chairman, chief executive officer, president and COO, only 6% are women. More importantly, only 2% of the CEOs are women, and only 15% of the seats on the boards of directors are held by women.

Back in 1986 the Wall Street Journal coined the phrase "glass ceiling." In an article by Carol Hymowitz and Timothy Schellhardt wrote: "Even those few women who rose steadily through the ranks eventually crashed into an invisible barrier. The executive suite seemed within their grasp, but they just couldn't break through the glass ceiling."

Admittedly, "glass ceiling" is a catchy phrase, but is it really the reason why women don't make it into the C-suite? Or is it more likely due to the sum of many obstacles that appear along the trajectory of a woman's career that is the real reason?

While there was a time when the barriers were absolute, times have changed and the glass ceiling metaphor rings less true. We have female CEOs, university presidents, governors, etc. In addition, the metaphor implies that women and men have equal access to entry and mid-level positions, when in point of fact they don't. The glass ceiling doesn't incorporate the complexity and variety of challenges women can face in their leadership journey.

The truth is that women aren't turned away just as they reach the pinnacle of their career. They disappear in numerous ways leading up to that stage. The path to the C-suite is not a simple or direct path, but one that requires persistence, awareness of progress and careful analysis of the obstacles that lie ahead. For women who aspire to top leadership positions the routes exist, but like a labyrinth they are full of twists and turns - some that are expected and others that come out of left field.

By identifying and understanding the different barriers that make up this labyrinth (and how some women find their way around them), we can develop concrete ways to break down those barriers.

Remnants of Prejudice

It's well established that men as a whole still have the benefit of faster promotions and higher wages. Here in the U. S. women employed full time earned 81 cents for every dollar earned by men. Is this a result of discrimination? One of the most comprehensive studies conducted by the U. S. Government Accountability Office found that even after adjusting wages for all of the ways men and women differ (i.e. gender and other characteristics), women's wages remained lower than men's.

Similar studies have been used to answer the question of whether discrimination affects promotions. These studies also support that discrimination is a key factor in determining who gets promoted. Promotions come more slowly for women than for men with equal qualifications. Interestingly, little evidence exists that the odds are stacked higher against women as they ascend the ladder - that women's promotions become increasingly less likely than men's at higher levels within organizations. Instead, a general bias against women seems to exist with equal force at all levels. The dearth of female corporate officers is the result of discrimination that has operated at all ranks, and is not proof of a specific obstacle to advancement as women approach the top.

Resistance to Women's Leadership

What's behind this discrimination? Basically, it's a set of widely held conscious and unconscious associations about women, men and leaders. Women are associated with traits that embody compassion and a sense of community such as being affectionate, kind and sympathetic. Men, on the other hand, are associated with qualities that convey control and assertion, such as being aggressive, ambitious, self confident and forceful. These latter traits are seen by most people as effective leadership.

As a result, women leaders find themselves in a Catch 22 situation. If they exhibit traits typically associated with males, they will likely be resented and considered "too aggressive" for the position. Studies that have tracked reactions to men and women displaying different types of dominant behavior have consistently shown that this behavior is more damaging to women than it is to men. Assertive behavior can reduce a woman's chances of getting a job or advancing in her career. Interestingly, studies bear out that men can communicate in either a warm or a dominant manner without experiencing a penalty either way.

It all amounts to a clash of assumptions. We're all familiar with the stereotype of successful women executives who are often characterized as more pushy, selfish, abrasive and deceitful. Think Meryl Streep's character in The Devil Wears Prada. In the absence of any real evidence to the contrary, it's common for people to assume that such a highly effective woman must not be very likeable.

Leadership Style

Women often struggle to develop an effective and appropriate leadership style, one that balances the "communal" qualities people would rather see in women with the "mover and shaker" qualities people think leaders need to be successful. Women are not "men in skirts," and there is the possibility that women who behave like men will be penalized. It's not easy for a woman to strike that authentic balance as a leader. As women navigate their way through this Catch 22 situation, they are looking for ways to project authority without relying on autocratic behaviors that people find off-putting in women.

Family Life Demands

Women continue to be the ones who interrupt their careers, work part-time or take more days off to raise children. As a result, they have fewer years of job experience and fewer hours of employment per year, which slows their progress and reduces their income. While men are increasingly sharing housework and child rearing, the bulk of domestic work still lands on women's plates. In the U. S. married women devote an average of 19 hours a week to housework while married men contributed 11 hours.

When you look at child care hours, the numbers are even worse. Although it's common knowledge that mothers provide more child care than fathers, what's not known is that mothers are actually doing more than they did in earlier generations, regardless of the fact that fathers are doing more than in the past. The work/family conflict hasn't eased for women. The gain has been offset by increasing pressures for rigorous parenting and the increasing time demands of most high-level careers. Decision makers often assume that mothers have family responsibilities that make it inappropriate to promote them to demanding positions.

Networking

One of the biggest problems associated with balancing work and family that so many women must perform is that it leaves little time for socializing with colleagues and building professional networks. The "social capital" that accumulates is essential. Fast track managers spend more time and effort socializing and interacting with clients, and social capital may be even more necessary to advancement than how well an individual does their job.

Even if they have time to engage in informal networking, women find it difficult to benefit if they are a small minority. In such settings, the influential networks are made up entirely or almost entirely of men. Breaking into these male networks can be difficult, especially when men center their networks on masculine activities.

We'll look at potential solutions to these obstacles in our next edition of Sacred Success...

 
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About Evelyn
 
 
I'm a late bloomer. I've never taken the linear path, but it's a path that's worked just right for me. I'm an entrepreneur now at midlife, and as Founder & CEO of Evelyn Kalinosky LLC, my coaching practice specializes in helping C-suite and senior-level women executives 40 and older achieve a more sacred kind of success. For these women, the desire to play a bigger game requires a strong profit motive, but making money is no longer the goal. The goal is a search for significance, a journey to uncover the wealth of the self, a right of passage to their highest purpose, and to a life that is as unique as their fingerprint. I am emphatically driven by a visionary culture of excellence and heart, and believe in helping women cultivate extraordinary lives of passion and purpose from midlife and beyond. I truly enjoy working with women to create ways in which they can have a positive impact on others and the world around them.
 
In addition to being a coach, Evelyn is a speaker, poet and author, and is currently writing a book on women and their journey in and through midlife.   Feel free to contact Evelyn at evelyn@evelynkalinosky.com or visit her website at www.evelynkalinosky.com.
 
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