“The only way in which one human being can properly attempt to influence another is by encouraging him to think for himself, instead of endeavoring to instill ready-made opinions into his head.”  ~ Leslie Stephen

Good Morning!

One of the things I always strive to do with my employees is to develop independent thinking on many levels.  I am less interested in hearing my opinion repeated than I am in hearing their original opinions.

I have always been like this, in politics and the news as well.  While I might watch a news show, I am not convinced or swayed by simple summaries or quick coverage.  Instead, I investigate the topic on my own, getting information from many sources, forming my own opinion.  And I apply this principle to child rearing as well.  While there are certain values that I (and, I am sure, many parents) instill in their child, I am careful to instill what I feel are my “core values,” and then to leave plenty of room for my daughter to create her own thoughts, opinions, and viewpoints of the world.  Encouraging this independent thinking creates a natural curiosity about life.

Your Turn:  Today, observe how you are influenced by opinions and how you influence others.  Ask more questions, do more research, develop your curiosity and curiosity for those you care about.

Today’s Affirmation:  I form my own opinions, building curiosity for life.