Soften The Ego and Get Him To Fall For You

Published: Sat, 06/06/15

   
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Hi ,

Greetings from the sky.  I'm writing this on the flight from Athens to JFK.  I left Greece this morning and it was such a marvel.  If you ever have a chance to travel Greece should definitely be on your bucket list of places to visit.

I was on a cruise the past week and each time the subject of what I do came up with my ship mates, they got all fascinated.  I told them, matter-of-factly that I was the most successful relationship coach out there -at least in the virtual world, I'm not sure if there are other offline coaches who have given birth to 18 engagements this year alone or 30 engagements the past year and a half.

Though I'm financially independent I'm not as rich as some other big names out there but I don't define my success on that.  My success is simply defined by my consistent and amazing results and daily long testimonials from my clients.  I have a devoted following who treats my ebook like the Bible that they read over and over till every written word sinks in.

And I'm the first to admit I never expected this.  It all kinda fell on my lap.  I almost had nothing to do with this great success.  

They asked me how I did this.  I said enlightenment.  You see, enlightenment has been so mystified by spiritual seekers.  People have all kinds of conceptions of what enlightenment is, most of them are other-worldly in nature like the ability to float on air or walk on water or turn water into wine...we've heard all those legends and fables.  Those are products of the ego (the seeking mind).

And I did too before my awakening.  My ego wanted it to be something so other-worldly.  So unreachable.  What the ego can grasp is not something the ego wants.

Enlightenment is really the capacity to see things as they are.  It is the end of the search, plain and simple.  It is the profound understanding that every search is the act of the ego.  Once you identify the ego, you stop seeking 'cause there is no one who seeks once you see how the ego works.  

It is the end of suffering.  Suffering is caused by the illusion of the self.  When the self ends, suffering has also come to an end.

So that is in a nutshell how I become such an effective coach and teacher.  My awakening makes me a very intuitive person.  I can read you because you and me are one and the same.  Once I understand myself I understand each one of you.  I know how your mind works cause I know how mine works.

It is hard to grasp, no doubt.  I didn't all of a sudden get this myself (though the awakening itself was sudden but to myself personally there was a process of getting there).  My ego had been trying to understand this no-self thing for as long as I could remember but the ego could never grasp itself.  It's like the eyes can't see themselves or the dog can't chase its own tail.

Only when you are exhausted by the search you come to a complete stop and acceptance of what is.

So imagine, when someone with no self gets into a relationship, how easy that relationship is?

That is my relationship with my boyfriend.

You, too, can have an easy relationship like that.  In fact all of my successful clients have that kind of effortless relationships.  It's because they have softened the ego so much since they have found me.

One of them is Tricia.  Her boyfriend is smitten by her.  I mean she's gorgeous and all that but that is now why.  Her inner beauty is unrivaled.  She shared the conversation she had with her boyfriend last night:  

"Okay so during our four hour phone conversation last night we discussed a few things:

He kept saying things like "when we live in the same house" "how do you think it will be when we have four kids in the house?" 


"Do you think I'm weird for thinking about this?" "I knew spending a week with you every day was going to spoil me"

"I keep waiting for your crazy to come out. Aren't all women kind of crazy?" "You have to be the least emotional woman I've been in a relationship with (I understood emotional as meaning least demanding nagging and bitching)" 

"You're so cute and so sweet, your voice is so soft, I don't think I'd be upset by anything you say." 

"I miss you so much, I wish you were with us (his daughter was with him)" "I feel so lucky to have met you. I love you Tricia" 

Swoon overload. <3 <3 <3 <3"

Funny, one of my clients actually told another person in my face with almost a disgust in her face "She doesn't count.  She has no emotions."

The thing is just because we don't get upset very often, it doesn't mean we have no emotions.  

You can get her interview here (Series 1, class #2)


You can also get the latest interview with Goddess Gina who has just given birth to her first baby with her former EUM (Series 3, Class #1).  It was a handsome baby boy with lots of hair.

Goddess Interview Series

My boyfriend got all mushier and fell more deeply in love with me since I've been on the trip himself.  I didn't do anything for him.  I only did things for myself to make myself happy and he goes gaga on how happy and positive a person I am. 

Guys are just smitten by self-focused women who don't hang their happiness on them or the relationship.

And this is all I teach.  To learn more, sign up for my hit program:

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It's time to invest in yourself if you are tired with the same bumps over and over in your love life.  If you are not sure yet, start with my book while it's still $47 or $67 because very soon I won't be able to accommodate all requests for coaching and have to rise the price.



Love,
Katarina