When Couple Counseling Has Failed, My Method Is The Last Resort

Published: Fri, 05/29/15

How To Get Your Husband Back 

Hi ,


Greetings from Turkey!  I'm on a 2-week trip and this is my last day in Turkey and today I'll be going back to Istanbul to board on a cruise over Greek Isles for another week.  


Even on my vacation, success stories keep flowing in. The last time I talked to you we were at 13th engagements and now two weeks later....it has ballooned to 18...yup EIGHTEEN.


And what is truly fascinating is with one of the engaged ladies Dominique, her fiancé is her EUM as well!


This is the same guy who told her he never wanted to have a relationship!  My method turned that around.  The frog was boiled through and through.


I truly can't keep up and am already forgetting who are on the list!  And as you might have guessed I'm truly busy these days (hence the need for a break).  Even on my trip I am always on my cell when I have a chance answering emails and responding to questions in the support group.


And I want to also share another great news that just came in yesterday from Miranda who just got back with her husband: "Kat, my husband came back last night. Said my energy was different and he realized that he wanted to spend his life with me. It was unexpected and I'm still in a state of disbelief. I didn't think it would happen so fast. I was really unattached when he was telling me all his feelings and truly just enjoyed the moment. I didn't say a word and just let him talk. So different than me before. Thanks for everything :)


My husband left in February. I was doing all the things that Kat teaches us not to. Bothering him for time and sex. Getting upset when he didn't give me what I wanted, pushing him further away. Something about marriage had triggered all my insecurities and them when my dad passed away last year I seemed to get more demanding. Even when I was not being demanding or bitchy, my energy was all anxious and I was constantly wondering what was "wrong" with him... Etc. The reality was he was working three jobs, saving for his dream. 


He had one day off every other week and I was expecting him to spend it with me. He was exhausted and I was draining every bit he had left. So he left. It blind sided me. I'm a pretty open minded person and intuitively didn't fight his leaving. It was peaceful. I didn't help him pack, but I also didn't try and stop him. 


The reality of him leaving woke me up. I choose to use that time to dive into myself and figure out why this was happening again. It was a pattern I had from previous relationships where I would get the man I wanted and then after we got into a secure thing, I shifted and pushed them away. In my head, I thought marriage was a guarantee against that. I was wrong. Men will do what they have to when they are not inspired by the woman they are with. Freedom before love. 


I found Kat on April 3rd and started reading and re-reading her book. I listened to various audios over and over. The Leaning Back Workshop and "How to be a High Value woman" were particularly helpful. I did the meditation from the leaning back series at least a dozen times. I know that repetition is key to change. I have not yet done Journey Inward, but I still plan on it. 


Since, finding this my life has changed in so many ways. I discovered how to make myself happy. I quit my job at the hospital and got an offer at a busy tattoo studio as a full time artist. I removed toxic people from my life with no drama. I started wearing more dresses and my friends keep telling me how "good" I look and how more relaxed I feel. My brother came over and made some comment about how "This was the most feminine he had ever seen me." 


All the feedback kept encouraging me that I was on the right path, for me... It no longer was about getting my husband back. I decided in myself that this was the best thing that ever happened to me and regardless I was going to be really solid in my feminine energy from this point forward. And I just let go... Then I started getting hit on. 


That never used to happen to me. Even though I was attractive, my energy was damn scary to people. That has changed. Nurses from my work asked for my number. Guys at bars when I was hanging out with my friends or drawing in the corner by myself. I even had two of my long time male friends try to pursue me in the last month. 


One just last week, told me he was going to go to my husband and tell him if he didn't step up, that he was going to start pursuing his wife. I asked him not to or I'm sure he would have! I told him I was not interested in having a relationship. 


So long story short... Saw my husband on Monday. Was totally unattached and relaxed. He ended up coming back to our house and staying the night, which he has done about every other week since moving out. I always let him come and go. Never said anything or questioned him or gave him crap about our relationship. A couple times I slipped up and either texted my feelings or went to the place where he lived twice, this was before I had started to embrace what I learned here. He very quickly pulled back and then I wouldn't hear from him. So I stopped contacting him unless he contacted me. 


Usually he would only contact me if he needed something, but I just was nice and let it happen. Part of me felt "used" but I kept letting it go and being sweet about it. So back to this Monday, in the morning he left and then came back like two hours with a gift. He said it was for my new job. Then he called and asked to come over last night to get something and I was busy with a friend so I made him wait. 


When he did come over, he grabbed me and asked me if I felt it on Monday. I just looked at him because honestly I didn't know what he meant. He said he felt connected to me and that he wanted to come home and spend the rest of his life with me. I couldn't believe it. I just stood there and looked at him and let him talk. I leaned back the whole time and then gave him and big hug. He asked me to put his wedding ring back on. 


Today we woke up and he asked me to go to a movie with him and then we are going to dinner at a mutual friends house this evening. I don't really know what else to say. Right, now I'm sitting in a hot bath, writing this long ass message. Hope this helps someone. All you ladies have sure helped me:)


I feel like it important to note how hard I dove into Kat's teaching. I'm married and starting dating anyway, just friends, but male friends. I also put her audios in my ears everyday. I would walk around work and listen with one earphone. I stopped initiating physically, but it wasn't until I stopped initiating energetically that the change happened. Every time I would start to think about my husband I would tell myself to pull back and think about me. I started a journal. Some days were really hard and I couldn't post here for some reason so I had to dive into myself. I was plagued with fear and guilt, shame. I had to cry alone, talk myself through it. It sucked, yet a necessary part of the transformation."


Sign up for all my programs and reap the reward.  Here's one of the programs Miranda was on that has shifted her energy. 


Leaning Back and Cultivating Feminine Mystique Workshop


And she is also on the monthly membership:


Feminine Goddess Enlightened Relationship


As I have always said ENERGY IS EVERYTHING.  This takes wisdom and I teach only wisdom.  And it's a very subtle thing and unfortunately this is not being taught out there (hence you don't see as many success stories with other methods out there).  I have discovered this gold mine through the lab of my own love life and I am still amazed how consistent it has produced results.


Don't wait, when you can turn your love life around today the way Miranda did in less than 2 months!


Or my client Gina who has just given birth to her first baby (also my first).  She shared in the group: "Thank you auntie Katarina, and ladies. We're sleep deprived, but ecstatic. I can confidently say that my baby boy would not exist had it not been for Kat! And, who I formerly knew as my EUM is now my partner and a really fantastic and doting papa."

Bring miracles into your life.  I have a Midas touch you won't find anywhere else.  So if you are still doubtful after reading this...what are you thinking?  Invest now in my ebook first at least:

He's Really That Into You He's Not Ready


It's still $67 or $47 without the 20 min Skype coaching but with the pace of demand for coaching that I'm getting, I will have to increase the prices pretty soon.


And to remind you we're still have an ongoing group coaching that will cement your connection further with the guy you adore or if you are single, will equip you with the working ways to melt a man's heart:


Four Components Of Melting His Heart


We have done two classes on Trust and appreciation.  We'll continue on class #3  on respecting his leadership when I'm back in June.  You will listen to the first two classes upon signing up.  In class #2 you will learn how to encourage good behaviors that get you more good behaviors and how to overcome your displeasure of things that bother you by shifting your perspective, and thus energy. You get to hear from some of the engaged ladies on week 5 how they pulled it off. Plans are available.


Four Components Of Melting His Heart


My teaching revolutionizes the world.  Our community is changing and healing the world, one woman at a time.   Will you be a part of the history in the making?  The choice is yours.



Love,

Katarina