Making a woman notice you is the easy part, a big burp, a fart, a wild waving of the hands and she'll certainly take notice of you... but really, that's not the way to get her attention while also turning on her attraction for you, right?
You want her attraction to be focused on you the moment she sees you.
Smile, then invite her over to chat a bit with you, so you can introduce yourself. Encourage her to come to you, not you walking over to her.
Motion with your hands, or mouth the words "Hello" and nod with your head that she should join you.
That's very important because when a woman is standing somewhere there are two things she wants to do, stay or move. Staying is always a bad option she might pick that forces you to go to her. Bad.
We want her to come to you, move out of the little "safe zone" she may have created, and be just a little more vulnerable (maybe) and intrigued by you.
This "come to me" technique can be used anywhere and usually breaks down any instant barriers she may feel about you because of her instant interest in what you have to say.
Start with your name, "Hi I am Rob" and ask what her name is. If you have an open hand put it out to shake her hand then say "You looked bored, can I help to entertain you for a few moments?"
Now you can tell a joke and ask her questions about herself, what she does for a living, how does she like living where she does, etc.
The idea here is to encourage her to talk about herself.
Don't take up too much of her time (maybe walk her back to where she was standing before) and get her phone number or email address.
She'll really like you, I promise!
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