To empower another, is to empower yourself.
To celebrate another, is to celebrate yourself.
And to free another, is to free yourself.
I say empower, celebrate, and free them all,
~ tut.com
Most of you know that I see dating as a wild adventure of self-growth, giving you the opportunity to step into your best self, as you learn more about what makes you tick.
This might sound a little strange, but I also see dating as a way for you to help change the world!
Because how you show up when you date, sends a mirror to those you meet, subconsciously asking them to either step UP to a new level of authenticity, or stay exactly where they are.
Everytime you interact with someone, you are either becoming a better person, or you are not.
And when YOU are a glorious example of honesty, authenticity, integrity, compassion, and empathy- the others around you will be affected.
For better or worse, your behavior will touch them, encouraging them to step higher, or to slide into bad behavior.
So, which example do you want to be?
I've got an amazing guy client and to his credit- he chooses to be a role model to the women he dates, who haven't stepped into their authenticity yet.
It can be frustrating for him that the women he meets refuse to be straight with him. They often take the cowardly way out.
But he perseveres, a light shining into the darkness of the dating world.
I'm so proud of him, because I believe this behavior makes a difference.
So, the next time you are interacting with a new date, even a co-worker or irksome friend, ask yourself how you can:
Empower them by empowering yourself.
Celebrate them by celebrating yourself.
And free then by freeing yourself.
These things are sort of easy when you like the date across from you. But the real test comes when you don't particularly enjoy them!
See if you can bring this uplifting attitude to even those encounters!
And let me know how it goes, I want to hear
Keep Stepping into Your Best Self and You WILL Attract Your Perfect Partner,
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