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I've recently fallen in love with cashmere v-neck cardigans. While I'm not sure how long this love affair will last (my previous flings in the past twenty years have included empire waists, overalls - I was in college, please forgive me, and ripped jeans), based on my past, I'd like this current love interest to go the distance as it seems more about genuine style rather than trying to make a statement, but then I began to think about the latter half of that assumption. Doesn't anything we choose to wear to make a statement? Aren't we communicating to the world each moment we step outside whether it be in flats, stilettos, boots or in our flip flops?
So the bigger question is, why do you choose to wear the clothes you wear? Jennifer L. Scott brought up this question in her book Lessons from Madame Chic which begged me to ask this question as well, why not wear what we love and what flatters us? While there will always be some boundaries to remain between with regards to work, quite frankly, instead of hiding behind our clothes, why not choose clothes that present the authentic foundation of our best selves so that we as the individual can shine and share what we have to offer.
Our world is initially attracted by what it sees, and so often the first impression is what sticks in someone's mind; however, an amazing first impression will only carry you so far. Why not pack the one-two punch? Look appropriately groomed and stylishly dressed for the occasion that shares a hint of your personality and then let your fabulous personality, intelligence and conversation skills seal the deal? In other words, keep in mind the importance of dressing well and you will be one step closer to success, appreciation for what you truly have to offer and who knows what else.
And while v-neck cardigans may have my attention right now, dresses will always have a large section of my closet. Here are some reasons why you might want to consider wearing more dresses as a way to communicate your best self:
In this week's newsletter, the theme seems to be about keeping it simple, while remaining chic and stylish whether it be with regards to the clothes we wear or the life we lead. In this week's newsletter, the reader's favorite post grew out of a book I just finished and couldn't recommend more; however, it is also a book that due to popular demand was taken off the shelves by its most recent publisher and will only be available in November, but trust me, it is a book you will want to add to your wishlist or hint at for an early Christmas gift.
Also, I have a feeling many of you may take on more than your fair share and in doing so revert to the approach of multi-tasking to get everything done. Be sure to read Wednesday's post where I share reasons to consider eliminating this skill from your repertoire. I too had to wean myself, but I've learned, in the long run, my life is better off without it.
For anyone who needs a bit of motivation in the middle of the week, stop on by Jenesequa's website on Wednesday where you'll find a short "Mid-Week Motivation" post I have begun to write each week. This week's topic was all about sharing too much, and why revealing less really is more (click here to read). Any for anyone with an iPhone, you can now read Jenesequa's
monthly style magazine via their new free app - click here to download and read the new April issue.
I don't know about you, but I'm ready for a weekend. I'm dreaming of a Friday evening with wine and cheese waiting for me as I tuck the evening into bed, perhaps some play time in my yard after visiting some of my favorite nurseries and limitless leisure time to read and read some more. How about you? Is the weekend calling your name? I hope the past week has gone well, and remember, stop every once in awhile, take a deep breath and realize this thing . . . your life . . . is your masterpiece, what will you create?
Until next week, I'll see you on the blog.
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