[X&Y] The Most Underrated Strategy For Bars & Clubs
Published: Fri, 06/28/19
WHAT'S INSIDE: Here's my #1 tip when it comes to meeting women
out on the town. It's incredibly powerful, yet almost nobody ever talks
about it.
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THE MOST UNDERRATED STRATEGY FOR BARS AND CLUBS
Welcome to the weekend. Since you're probably going to be
going out tonight, I wanted to give you something cool that you
might be able to make plans around.
Now granted, advice on how to meet women at bars and clubs is
pretty much ubiquitous. And although I did an entire Facebook
Live on the subject the other night, by now you know that I take
pride in finding other, more original topics to talk about most of
the time.
But a while back, a flat-out wild realization hit me like a bolt of
lightning while Emily and I were out at...well...a bar.
There really is at least one angle of this whole "bars & clubs"
shtick that I've never heard talked about anywhere.
That's what I can only call "karaoke game", believe it or not.
That's right, meeting women at karaoke bars--the American kind,
at least, where you actually sing in front of a group of other
people who are there to have a good time.
So what caused this epiphany?
Well, basically Emily and I have both known for quite sometime
that karaoke joints tend to be more social places than most bars.
This is understandable. After all, you're in an interactive setting
where the audience is self-generating the entertainment.
This makes fellow co-participants want to talk amongst themselves,
all the while congratulating or even co-conspiring with each other.
Sunday night was no different...except for two key events.
First of all, there was the decidedly average woman who booted
herself at least two notches up any man's raw attraction scale
upon belting out the World's Hottest Rendition of Carrie Underwood's
"Before He Cheats".
As a red-blooded man who drives a 4x4 pickup with leather interior,
that got my attention.
Shortly thereafter, something even more mind-bending happened.
A few minutes after completing my first "number"--a particularly
soulful one that nobody could have predicted I'd go for--Emily had
several decidedly hot young women tap her on the shoulder, gaze
longingly into her eyes and say something to the effect of, "Oh...
that was so dreamy. How come my boyfriend can't be like YOURS?"
As if that wasn't shocking enough, the looks and comments actually
RAMPED UP as the night progressed. Emily's "perfectly imperfect"
take on Gwen Stefani singing "Hella Good" didn't hurt.
Neither did hearing every chick's voice in the place singing
along with my hard-practiced "Jumper" by Third Eye Blind.
So it hit me: Karaoke "game"--when strategized and executed
correctly--has got to be the most naturally effective version of
"night game" imaginable.
Seriously. Get this right, and men and women BOTH can practically
own the whole place, driving "interest-level" on the part of the
opposite gender so rambunctiously in the process that people are
practically throwing numbers and e-mail addresses.
Let's break it down. First, here's WHY karaoke is the "perfect
storm" for meeting MOTOS (members of the other sex):
1) It takes REAL CONFIDENCE to even get up there. Doing so
provides hard evidence.
2) You cause every hottie in the room to NOTICE YOU, even as you
get this done without any shred of NEEDINESS whatsoever.
3) You get MAD SOCIAL PROOF without begging for approval (just
for showing up, really...even if you're verifiably terrible).
4) Everyone understands you have a REAL PERSONALITY and
you might actually be FUN to hang out with.
5) You get to make eye contact with whoever you want from up
there--all while in a position of leadership over the whole room.
Wait a minute...all of those bullet points sound familiar. If my
head is on straight, all of the above steps read like the basics of
creating attraction. And all in one simple step? Are you KIDDING
ME?
No, I am most certainly not kidding you.
Remember, however, that I did complicate matters by mentioning
that both STRATEGY and EXECUTION have to be on-point.
Otherwise, it ain't happenin' for you.
So now that you know WHY it all works so well, here's HOW to make
it all work in your favor:
1) Get Up There
You have to participate in order to reap the benefits. And here's
the best part: You DO NOT have to know how to sing.
Think about it. There are people you can name off the top of your
head who have record contracts and can't carry a tune in a bucket.
The strategy? Pick songs by those people! (Duh.)
Now, on the other hand, if you were the star of your high-school
choir and/or you can sing along to the radio in the car like a
freakin' rock star...I don't want to hear any more excuses.
The world is yours on a silver platter here. Sack up.
2) Plan Your "Set" Ahead Of Time
It's important to pick a few songs you think you could
theoretically nail to the floor ahead of time.
Then, get on iTunes and drop a lousy buck for each one. Play them
ten times in a row until you've got them down STONE COLD.
I know one guy who truly can't sing, but has some Weird Al song
down so ridiculously that he brings the house down with it every
time.
There's another dude I know who's can throw down "Kiss" by Prince
and "Insane In The Membrane" like a badass. As it turns out those
are the ONLY two songs he does, and he's done them both about
1000 times each.
Practice...it's worth it. Smoothness rocks even over raw talent
in most cases.
3) Mix It Up
This is a major way to go from "participation" to "looks of awe and
amazement accompanied by unsolicited approaches from everyone
present".
Say you decide you feel comfortable with a particular hip-hop tune.
Next time you get up there, sing something completely different.
Going from rock-station anthem to R & B classic works particularly
well.
Whatever the case, work hard to have at least one slower, libido-
inspiring arrow in the proverbial quiver of tunes in your repertoire.
If you are summarily freaked out by even getting up there for now,
this can wait. But work towards it.
4) If You Already Have A Date, Sing To Her
One time I busted out with "Sara Smile" to a woman named Sara, who
I'm pretty sure still talks to her friends about it even though the
guy who did it is now married--to someone else.
What made the whole gig even more poignant is that there was NO
CHANCE of guessing that a guy like me would pull that one out of
the ether. Jaws dropped. Nice.
5) Bring Energy
You've heard that you need to bring high energy when meeting
women. This is no exception. In fact, "energy" equals "awesome"
a shockingly high percentage of the time.
On valuable pointer here is to gauge the "mood" of the room and
pick a song that fits in rather than throwing a wrench in the
works.
In other words, if everyone seems to be singing '80s hair band
songs, you might want to save the Kenny Chesney tune for some
other time.
6) Collaborate And Be Social
High five others when they are done. Ask the next table over what
they are singing. Find a woman to sing a male/female duet with
you--"Love Shack" by The B-52's is a good (and pretty easy) choice.
Are you beginning to see how this can be like "shooting fish in a
barrel"?
7) Dance To Other People's Songs
Emily and I did this--when nobody else had--and what do you
know? Everyone else joined us.
Not only do you show some leadership when you do this, you validate
whoever is on stage.
Make friends, influence people, create attraction.
By now, you may be thinking, "How come I never figured any of this
out before?"
If you are like most, it's because you've long ago ruled out any
chance of anyone dragging you on stage. Get over it, and watch
amazing things happen.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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