[X&Y] The Weirdest Thing About Women And Their Smartphones
Published: Tue, 03/27/18
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IN THIS EDITION: A woman's smartphone might be your best
friend...for a completely unexpected reason.
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THE WEIRDEST THING ABOUT WOMEN AND THEIR SMARTPHONES
Back in about 2003 or 2004 I was spending a lot of time learning
about how to get better with women.
One of the big topics was how to approach a woman who's talking
on her cell phone. As small as it was, that phone was seen as an
enormous "barrier to entry".
Well, fast forward fourteen years later. I was at the car wash the other
day. The weather was absolutely gorgeous, so there were a good
three dozen people waiting with me while their cars were being
washed.
None of us knew each other, of course. So predictably, human
nature kicked in.
One after the next, people started reaching for their smart
phones...especially the women.
They were perpetrating as if they were handling important e-mails
or checking their schedule, but in reality most were dinking around
playing "Candy Crush" or something.
I got to thinking why that sort of thing tends to happen. Are we
really addicted to checking our phones so much?
Well, that phenomenon has been all over the news so much
lately that there's really no question about it any more.
But here's the weird part.
If you pay close attention to the social dynamics at play in a
group of strangers, you'll pick up on the slightest twinge of
social uneasiness right before the women in particular start
reaching for their smartphones.
The truth is that iPhone is every bit as much of a "security
blanket" as it is a multi-functional electronic device.
Women who are alone and reach for their smartphones are
uncomfortable with being alone.
Finding themselves in a group of people with nobody to talk to
feels awkward and perhaps even a bit embarrassing to them.
Women who fit the somewhat stereotypical mold of being VERY
social creatures will always gravitate away from that feeling of, well,
loneliness.
A smartphone is the 21st century solution for manufacturing "social
interaction" at will.
That's why women who are alone in a crowd like that will soon start
texting someone--anyone--after just a few minutes of playing
"Salad Ninja".
Go ahead and ride public transportation sometime if you're not
used to it. Every woman on the bus or metro for longer than two
stops will probably be texting someone or playing with some app.
But the smartphone solution to situational loneliness is NOT a
perfect one. It's still a cheap substitute for real, human interaction.
And THAT is why I challenge you to start considering a woman's
smartphone a major indicator of when to approach instead of a
massive barrier keeping you from it.
Show me a woman who reaches for her smartphone in a crowd and
I'll show you a woman who's basically broadcasting that she'd love to
get some attention from a real, live human being.
That means that if you go talk to her she'll practically thank you
for rescuing her from her loneliness and self-consciousness in the
moment.
Now granted, I'm assuming here that you didn't sneak up on her from
behind and ambush her.
I'm also assuming that you're generally handling yourself like a
respectable, non-creepy human being and giving her space.
But seriously...put what I'm talking about to the test as I have on
dozens of occasions.
Walk right up to her and make an observation or guess which car
is hers.
That's all you need. Definitely refrain from bombarding her with
a ton of questions. Small talk is fine to begin with.
My prediction is that she'll put the smartphone down so fast it
might get digital whiplash. Then she'll look up at you with an
almost relieved look. Maybe even a bright smile.
From there, you might have to gather yourself and recover from
the momentary shock at how easy it was to approach a woman
with a smartphone.
But you will. And once you suspend your disbelief and try it a few
more times with other women in similar situations, you'll find you
have a powerful new strategy for meeting more women than ever.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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