[X&Y] 6 No-Brainer Ways To Tell If She's Interested In You

Published: Wed, 10/23/19



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WHAT'S INSIDE:  How can you really tell if a woman is interested in
you or not...without potentially making a fool of yourself?

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6 NO-BRAINER WAYS TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED IN YOU


For most guys, it's not just one of the most frustrating parts of
their dating lives, it's one of the most vexing aspects of life
itself.

I'm speaking, of course, about trying to figure out whether a woman
is actually interested or not.

Well, today I'm going to give you the first three of six key
strategies that should serve you well.  In fact, I've reached for
the most foolproof ones I can think of.  Let's get right down to
business...



1)  She Seeks You Out


I don't mean to be the bearer of bad news, but if a woman's always
too "busy" or has other excuses for not meeting up with you then
she's just not all that crazy about you.

This is not a gender specific phenomenon.  You know as well as I do
that when you meet a woman who really does it for you you'll do
everything short of calling in sick for work to spend time with her.

Check that... Come to think of it, I actually HAVE called in sick
for work to be with a woman before, so there you go.

Even BEFORE you've shown any interest in her, though, it's a
glorious sign when a woman is going out of her way to find you,
talk to you and perhaps even TOUCH you.



2)  Third Party References


Oh man, this one is GOLDEN.

Do you want to ask a woman out, but you're not sure what she'll say?

Do you want to kiss her, but are afraid of getting "the cheek"?

The number one reason why most men "fail to deploy" in situations
like those is that they just don't want to "blow their cover"
unless they're virtually 100% sure that she'll respond favorably.

Fortunately for all of us, the absolute best way to gauge exactly
what's going on without exactly putting ourselves out there just
yet is to position our potential intentions in the third person.

For example, you might say to a woman, "You know, I have no idea
why you're single.  Someone should ask you out."

Or, let's say you're already out with her.  You could bust out
with, "One of these days, SOME guy is going to finally have to kiss
you, and do it right."

The beauty of this, of course, is that you haven't really suggested
that YOU are the guy for the job just yet.

But if she thinks you should be, you're likely to get some
indication of that in return...even if it's every bit as
non-committal as your opening salvo.

She could say, "So then, who exactly do you have in mind for that?"
or perhaps, "I know...what's up with that?"

Any invitation for follow-up on the subject should be treated as a
green light.



3)  Using Sexual Innuendo As "Bait"


For the life of me, I can't understand why so many pickup artist
coaches recommend using sexual innuendo as a means of allegedly
"getting women to think about sex", as if it's going to make them
think about having sex with YOU.

Our human minds just don't work that way.

You really can't expect to use the word "blow me" in a sentence in
lieu of "below me" and have the chick go, "Well slap your mammy and
call me Bertha, I should rip this guy's clothes off and ride him
like a friggin' merry-go-round."

That's not going to happen in her mind any more than it'll happen
in yours should some woman you're indifferent towards invite you to
"get off" (the bus) with her.

Nope.  The bottom line is that innuendo doesn't cause women to
think about sex with you.  Being sexually attractive generally
works much, much better.

All of that said, this doesn't mean that sexual innuendo can't be
your best friend.  You just have to use it differently.

The very best way.is to drop it somewhat subtly in the context of
otherwise "normal" conversation with a woman you're potentially
interested in, just to see what she does with it.

Opportunities in this regard are limited only by your ability to
sense them when they're imminent, so always keep an eye out.

One of my favorite ways to do this is to work certain mainstream
verbs into the conversation that can be construed to have a sexual
meaning when used in a particular context, but to do so in a
distinctly (but barely) ambiguous way.

For example, if you're in a position to help her out with
something, you might say, "Let me get this taken care of real
quickly and then I'll do you next."

Another example might be, "Yeah, we have great house parties. Next
time I'll be sure to have you."

Any time the idea comes up of her joining you for ANYTHING, you can
refer to it as "doing it together".

You get the idea.

Note that she may giggle a bit and/or actually say something to you
in acknowledgment of the double-entendre.  If she's a bit shy, she
may only raise an eyebrow.

What you're looking for is her taking the "bait" and running with
it in one form or another.

Suffice it to say that women patently avoid "going there" when
they're not sexually interested, but almost can't help but join in
the fun when they are.

Oh, and women may actually initiate this sort of thing themselves,
using it for the EXACT same purpose.  So be on the lookout for that
too...don't miss it.



I got a bit carried away with that last one, albeit for good
reason.  So let's save the second half of this discussion for next
time.

Tomorrow you can look forward to discovering three excellent ways
to know if a woman who you're already out with is really "feeling
it" for you.

Don't touch that dial...


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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