[X&Y] The Real Secret To Getting Physical With Her Fast

Published: Thu, 11/07/19



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IN THIS EDITION:  Here's the REAL way to get a woman sexually
charged for you sooner than later...and most guys have been getting
this ALL WRONG their entire lives.

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MAKING WOMEN WANT YOU DOESN'T HAVE TO BE DIFFICULT


Ask a woman what her idea of a "real man" is, and you won't hear
anything about being "macho"

She won't want to talk about fishing boats, golf handicaps or tuning
2-stroke engines.

What you WILL hear will be "code" for what makes her HOT for
a guy.

It's true.  Think of it this way.

Were I to ask you what makes a woman 100% female, chances are
you'd quickly rattle off a list of everything you find sexy about her.

It wouldn't be about how she likes shoe shopping, goes to the ladies'
room with all of her friends and watches the Oxygen channel.

This is the way it's supposed to be.  If you think about it, that makes
perfect, logical sense.  Masculinity and femininity are the building
blocks of sexual attraction.

Unfortunately, we as guys get mixed messages from society
about masculinity.

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You're a man.  That means women SHOULD want you, right?  Well,
it's time for you to get in on what's been making the world go 'round
for millennia.

Get your masculinity running on all cylinders and you'll fire her up
like the spark plug she is.

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It's time to make a bold move to stop settling for the "Just Be
Friends Zone".  That dreaded place is populated only by "neuter"
guys.

When you man up, women respond the way you've always wanted
them to...because that's how it's SUPPOSED to be.




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THE REAL SECRET TO GETTING WOMEN HOT FOR YOU
EARLY AND OFTEN



By now you know that I'm not a "get laid quick" kind of guy.  

I believe that patience with regard to one's primal urges up leads
to massive, untold dividends later when it comes to hanging out
with attractive women.

And yes, I firmly believe that "escalating kino" is a wrong-headed
approach to what is commonly known as "getting physical" with
women.

My ideas on that are infamous at this point, and some of you have
argued with me tooth and nail.

If you want a woman to be "comfortable being touched", so the
conventional wisdom goes, you've got to start with small touches
early and thereby desensitize...errr, get her ready for being touched
in progressively more intimate ways.

There are at least three problems with this.

First, every woman I've ever talked to is fully creeped out by this
philosophy.  Do not kid yourself.  And if you've got to keep your
techniques secret from the women they're supposedly designed to
work on, you're already in trouble.

Second, if you think women respond well to being walked through a
"process" you're thinking more like a software engineer than a
Chick Whisperer.  And by the way, I also know a car salesman who
wants to know what it'll take to get you to buy this Hyundai TODAY.

Third, by "patience" reaping "massive, untold dividends" I mean a
HALF-HOUR'S worth, not like six months' or a year's worth.  So
going about things the RIGHT way isn't even about having to wait
around longer than necessary, anyway.

Intrigued yet as to what this alternative solution I'm hinting at
might be? 

You should be.

After all, women WANT to be touched by guys they're attracted to.
And news flash:  They'd LOVE to have the freedom to TOUCH YOU
BACK also.

Note the use of the word FREEDOM.

If you've succeeded at attracting her sexually (and if she's on a
date with you, congratulations), then the issue at hand is 100%
related to her FEELING COMFORTABLE ENOUGH in your
presence.

That is...as long as you continue to IGNITE FEMININITY with
masculinity.

Suffice it to say that two-bit sales tactics tantamount to
"walking the customer up the 'Yes Ladder'" probably don't make
YOU feel comfortable about buying that Hyundai, do they?

So your "kino escalation" tactics are likely to have the same
effect on what attraction you've created thus far with any high
quality woman who's intelligent enough not to be "gamed".

As the old saying goes, "people love to BUY, but they HATE to be
sold."

If she LIKES you, then how exactly DO you get inside her head
and LEAD in a way that ignites her femininity and MAKES HER
WANT TO touch and be touched?

Well, for the first step it's time for a refresher on what exactly
this nebulous concept of "femininity" is made of.

You know instinctively what it is already, because it's what YOU
are really attracted to as a man.  It's even what is PHYSICALLY
BEAUTIFUL about her to you represents.

Life-sustaining, nurturing energy.  Bringing about laughter and
happiness.  Building social circles and bringing people together.
Hospitality.  FUN. 

Hey, there's a reason why "Joy" is a girl's name, isn't there?

What you've got to do is bring AS MUCH OF THIS to the surface as
you can on EVERY DATE you go on with ANY WOMAN.

And what state of mind is the ABSOLUTE ULTIMATE expression
of every single, blasted aspect of femininity that I've just laid out on
the table for you?

PLAYFULNESS.

There it is, in broad daylight.  It's as simple and uncomplicated as
the day is long.

Yet, most of us as guys show up for dates with a pocket full of
Kryptonite, doing the best we can to UTTERLY DIFFUSE the
superpower of playfulness dead in its tracks.

Scratch that.  We pound any semblance of it on the head with a
SHOVEL until it stops twitching.

Seriously.  What are we thinking, being so dead serious on dates?

We obviously aren't thinking that she's going to be ANYWHERE
CLOSE to "comfortable" with being "kinoed".

Dinner tables.  Movie theatres.  Serious "interview questions".

Forget it.

Instead, sit her in your car and tell her you've got a surprise for
her that's incredibly fun...and make her guess what it is. 

Then take her ice skating.  Pick her up when she falls and tell her
she's only less than a year to be ready for the Olympics, so she'd
better step it up.

Take her to the shopping mall and people watch.  Then go into some
funky store and try stuff on.  Bring out the most unthinkable old
lady hat and tell her it would look great on her.

[Ed. Note:  Taking her to a shopping mall is NOT to be confused
with a "shopping date".  RUN AWAY from women who suggest
anything of the sort.]

Do ANYTHING where there are other people around, action is afoot,
possibilities are endless, and talking/moving about freely is
actually ALLOWED.

Stop trying to IMPRESS her, for once, and start HAVING FUN with
her.

I solemnly promise you that even if you are with a "poker faced"
woman, she'll spring to life in a way that will think you've waved
a MAGIC WAND over her.

Speaking of magic, watch what happens next.

About the sixth time you pick her up from the ice skating rink, she
may push you so YOU fall down also. 

When it happens, don't get mad or something and see that as some
"violation of your social value". 

See it for what it is:  SHE TOUCHED YOU...and VOLUNTARILY so.

And after you try to put that ridiculous looking hat on her, she
may push you away and hit you on the shoulder...laughing.  This
also means SHE'S COMFORTABLE TOUCHING YOU.

Need more examples?  Fine.

If you're watching a DVD together and wondering what to do next,
change the channel, throw the remote into the chair across the
room, start laughing, and say "I'm going into the kitchen to get a
drink".

If you're cooking dinner together, flick water from the faucet on
her out of the blue.

And always, ALWAYS, watch her reaction.

Women respond to PLAYFULNESS like kitties respond to Kibbles
N' Bits.  You have my word on it.

By the way, here's something GOLDEN. 

If a woman EVER responds to any sort of playful banter from you
exactly in kind (e.g. she pushes you down on the ice rink after you
pick her up, she splatters water back at you, etc.) stop
EVERYTHING, look her in the eye for about one full second and
KISS HER. 

It's time.

Then, while kissing her, bite her lower lip ever so slightly,
pause, and say "Meow, you're sexy".  She'll kiss you even harder.

Need I explain to you the upgrade in sheer, visceral exhilaration
level this scenario provides over ANY meager success fomented by
trying to move from "light brush on the arm" to "touching her on
the shoulder"?

Wow...she finally relented and let you feel her up.  Great.  That was
anti-climactic back in seventh grade--and nothing has changed since.

Like I said, do what I'm talking about here the right way and the
"patience" necessary on your part could be as little as twenty
minutes or a half hour's worth...about as much time as it takes you
to run your "kino" routine anyway.

So stop being so serious, and free a woman up to be PLAYFUL the
next time you have an opportunity. 

Start focusing on her FEMININITY instead of her SEXUALITY and
watch her get really, really excited about making you feel like a man.


Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S.  The newest Mountain Top Podcast comes out tonight at
midnight, and the topic is VERY MUCH tied to this conversation.




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