[X&Y] How To Boldly Go For The Woman You Want

Published: Mon, 09/02/19




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WHAT'S INSIDE:  How can you make your intentions known to a
woman without looking like a needy wimp OR coming off as a
controlling jerk?

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THE FIRST STEP TO MAKING A BOLD STAND FOR WHAT
YOU WANT



Today I'm going to reveal a golden secret to getting the woman
you really want into your life.

But it's really just ONE piece of the whole puzzle of being the
man women naturally crave.

Probably the most frequent topic in men's dating and relationship
advice is indeed CONFIDENCE.  That's because it's the
absolute cornerstone on which attraction is built.

When you believe women want you, they will.  When you don't,
they won't.

This is BY FAR the #1 indicator of which men get the women
they want, while all the rest look on in utter frustration.

If you've experienced the frustration of lacking confidence with
women, know that you ARE NOT ALONE.

Almost EVERY man deals with it in life at one point or another.

But only a some men ever conquer the issue once and for
all.  I want you to be one of those most fortunate among men.

Life is truly about as good as it gets when you can be that cool,
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HOW TO BOLDLY GO FOR THE WOMAN YOU WANT


You've heard the saying time and again, especially relative to
men's dating advice:  "Women love men who boldly go for they
want."

On paper that really sounds good.  But the problem is that the
vast majority of men I've talked to aren't exactly sure what it
means.

You certainly don't want to be a wuss who stays on the sidelines,
trembling and afraid.  That much is clear as a bell.

But on the other hand, let's face it.  If you literally "go for what
you want" you might get arrested, hit with a sexual assault
charge and do hard time in the slammer.

What gives?

Well, you've got questions, so I've got answers.

There's more to solving this whole puzzle than simply recalling
that other oft-repeated adage associated with attraction:  "It's
not sexual harassment if she's attracted to you".

Yes, you should be as attractive as you can possibly be.  You
should do the best with what you've got.

Get that part right and chances are you'll have her attention.

But even then, you can't go around grunting "Gazongas!" and cop a
feel from every chick you see like you're Brendan Frazier in
Encino Man.

We all know that.

But even at the socially interactive level, haven't we been warned
by every dating expert on Earth about the dangers of "making our
feelings known" too soon?

I mean, doesn't that sort of thing make us look needy and
desperate?  No matter how "bold" you are, it's really easy to sound
like you're groveling.

But begging only seems to be effective if you're a Motown singer
from the '60s, and even then that's debatable.

Here's what I think.  You can put aside any and all images of both
groping AND groveling.  Neither applies to the intended gist of
"boldly going for what you want".

Similarly, it's not about "not taking no for an answer", which
every man fears could only lead to rape charges (and rightly so).

Women don't respond positively to being forced into anything,
that's for sure.  Neither do we as men, for that matter.

And likewise, gushing your feelings without restraint indeed isn't
very attractive either.

The key word is CONFIDENCE.

Boldness in that context implies that you're not afraid of her.
You're willing to stand up and make your opinions and desires
known, and you're brash enough to assert them expecting good
results.

If you can do that while respecting a woman's free will all the
while, then you will have most definitely applied the correct
formula.

Women will indeed respect you in turn at the very least   But
what's more, they'll probably also have no choice but to be a
little turned on by it all.

To "boldly go after what you want", at its very essence, means to
be authoritative without using brute force.

You make it known that you have chosen her, not that you'd really
love to chase her around and "hope" she shows some favor toward
you in return.

You leave room for her to have a dissenting opinion, but you don't
really expect her to.  If she does, it'll be her loss and you know
it.

So why does this careful balance of confident selection while
respecting her adult decision making capabilities work so well?

As so often is the case, it once again comes down to inspiring a
sense of safety and comfort in her, in combination with confident,
masculine leadership.

You see, being forceful in a way that you appear to be taking
without permission VIOLATES a woman's feeling of security.

That's every bit as unattractive as groveling in a way that
demonstrates clear overall weakness.

But on the other hand, when you're confidently authoritative enough
to spell out to a woman that she should be with you, all the while
giving her space to willingly join you, then you've actually
reinforced her comfort.

She knows that you can stand up to her in a moment of truth, and
because you seek willingness rather than "compliance" you occur
to her as a man who has her best interests at heart.

To be honest, if she's even remotely into you BEFORE you
present your intentions in this way, her attraction level is going to
peg the meter afterwards.

All of this, as intriguing as it sound, is only the tip of the
proverbial iceberg.  The full story and more practical steps to
achieving authentic bold confidence are found in Invincible.

Deserve what you want, and boldly go for it.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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