[X&Y] Does Getting Better With Women Sound Overwhelming? Read This...
Published: Thu, 07/11/19
WHAT'S INSIDE: Have you ever felt overwhelmed when it comes to
the process of learning about women and succeeding with them? Rest assured you're not alone...and believe me, there's good news.
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Today we're going to talk about overwhelm when it comes to
all the information out there on how to succeed with women.
But now you know ahead of time what the BEST way to clear
through all the noise is:
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LETTER FROM A READER
Hello Scot:
I have several sticking points.
The first is confusion. There's just a TON of advice out there.
Then, when what sounds like good advice on a web page doesn't
immediately translate in the real world, I start thinking "I will
never get this".
This often leads to having a hard time trusting in the method. In
other words, I have a hard time getting to the point where I think
my approach has a chance of success. I feel like I'd just rather
skip the painful trial and error.
Both of the above probably aren't helped by my deep fears around
publicly approaching hot women. Some positive thinking tips just
don't seem to stop my body from going into a visible freeze up.
What do you think?
Kevin (Northern Ireland)
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Hello Kevin:
I hear you man. It sounds like you're experiencing a classic case
of overwhelm.
It's easy to feel that way when confronted with what seems like a
LOT to learn...all at once. It's natural for that to make you
just want to throw up your hands and say "forget it".
But I want to reassure you first by letting you know that you most
certainly do not have to pressure yourself into getting everything
down by tomorrow morning.
You really don't have to ace all of this on the first try.
Even though there's indeed plenty of great content available to
you, mastering it doesn't have to be viewed as "painful trial and
error".
Nor does it even have to look like it.
The good news is that every single bit of what you learn--from
the first day onward--will be helping you get better with women
today than you were yesterday.
As such, you'll see results almost immediately, even if you'll be
seeing even more of the full benefits in a few weeks or months.
And if you really do "freeze up" around beautiful women today,
you'll be able to feel yourself moving in the right direction.
You know, it's not only okay to "pace yourself" a bit, it's
actually a good thing to do so.
One of the joys of this life is that the journey is often as much
fun as getting to the destination...as long as we allow it to be.
I know for me, I look back at the three years or so I spent getting
better and better with women to the point where I felt I had
"raised the bar" as high as it could go and consider them some of
the greatest years of my life.
I hadn't met Emily yet, but every little increase in success along
the way was a total thrill. Had I woken up the day after I first
made the decision to get better with women and met Emily, I would
have missed out on a lot of great experiences along the way.
I realize that we all think we would love to meet the greatest
woman we ever met today, but when you have the mindset that the
journey itself is going to be a total blast you can really free
yourself up from a world of pressure.
Think about it...once you see the very first principle you learn
actually work for you in the real world, it's going to be a total
rush. That'll motivate you to learn the next thing.
I distinctly remember it being that way for me...and it ROCKED.
Now, I fully realize that our modern world is one where "immediate
gratification" is prized highly. Most of the products you see
advertised in the world of men's dating and seduction advice are
promising things like this:
"Have sex tonight with the hottest woman you've ever met, and sleep
with a different one every night for the rest of your life. It
doesn't matter how much of a loser you are, and you won't have to
spend any money. By the way, all the women will approach you so
you don't even have to leave your chair."
And to be truthful, a lot of guys buy into that sort of promise
even if who they're really looking for is a high quality woman to
"live the dream" with.
Well, make no mistake about it. "Deserve What You Want" is the
concept that X & Y Communications was built on, and that's why I'm
not only unashamed to actually print your letter, Kevin, but
responding honestly to it as well.
So indeed, it's true that you won't likely be able to assimilate
everything right now and have it all firing on all cylinders for
you by dinnertime.
I'll never promise you that.
BUT...that said, here's the thing: I certainly don't want you to get
intimidated by the wealth of information to be gleaned in my programs
or any other of the solid ones I recommend and simply throw in the
towel.
Not only will you see some results quickly, it probably won't take
you nearly as long to get the full benefit as you think.
The best news of all is that if you can stick with the program
early on--even while you're feeling that sensation of "overwhelm
you'll quickly figure out that the pieces are starting to come
together faster than you thought.
"Overwhelm" will gradually morph into "confidence".
Let me tell you, it's like this for most areas of life that involve
gaining competence over time.
In fact, I remember when I embarked on a new adventure in learning
myself, and at that moment I felt a lot about that like you are about
getting better with women.
For ages I've been fascinated by airplanes and flight, so I decided
I'd like to get my pilot's license. And let me tell you, just
having read up on the process before me alone was intimidating.
Well, during my very first lesson the crazy instructor actually
let me do everything--all on the first day.
We're talking pre-flight check, communication with the tower,
sitting at the controls during taking off, flying the airplane to
the next airport and even landing the thing (at a major
international airport, no less).
I came away from the experience totally overwhelmed.
Being at the controls of a friggin' flying machine while having to
concentrate on what the tower is saying, where the altimeter is,
what heading we're on and what the heck "trimming the nose" means
was just way too much for a newbie like me to process at once.
Now no doubt, the instructor walked me through everything and was
there to fill in the gaps where needed.
But make no mistake, when I answered the preliminary question about
how much I'd like to be involved with during the first lesson with
"everything possible!" I had bitten off WAY more than I could chew.
Although it was crazy to consider that I'd have to be able to
juggle all of those tasks at once someday--and more--in order to earn
a pilot's license, I was as completely stoked as I was overwhelmed.
Sure, at first there's so much to think about when flying a plane
and when faced with doing it all at the same time it's easy to come
away thinking I'd probably never get it all down.
But at the same time, I already knew LOTS of things I didn't know
prior to my first lesson. And I was already thinking about what I
could add to my knowledge the next time I flew.
And importantly, I can also look back to when I was beginning to
learn how to play the guitar, surf or (ahem) get better with women
and recall feeling the exact same way about all of that as I did
about flying an airplane.
But it's been a blast getting better and better at each of those
skill sets along the way.
And I promise that if you want to meet higher quality women sooner
than later, Kevin, mastering how to do so not only worked for me
but also for thousands of other guys.
You'll get better with women, and I'll get better at flying
airplanes. Before we realize it, it'll all be second nature.
Go ahead and dive in, and enjoy the journey. And please do send
me your success stories along the way. I love to hear them.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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