[X&Y] The "Wannabes"

Published: Sat, 09/28/19


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IN THIS EDITION:  What force is more powerful in your life,
character or cowardice?

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ONCE YOU MEET HER, IT'S "ANYTHING GOES" FROM THERE


You wouldn't believe how many guys write me saying they "can't
get any women to go out with them", when in reality they haven't
really even talked to many women lately...let alone asked them out.

Or maybe you would believe it...because that pretty much describes
your predicament.

Well, the bottom line is crystal clear:  You just don't know if a woman
is interested in you or not until you find out.

That makes sense, doesn't it?  After all, every guy you see with a
hot, sexy woman by his side has ONE thing in common.

Know what it is?  That's right...he asked her out.

It's pretty brain-dead simple, isn't it?

In fact, it doesn't matter whether the guy is some sort of stud
or just average.  If he's got a great woman, he demonstrated
interest in her at some point and expressed a desire to continue
communicating with her.

Let's face it.  You've GOT to do the same, or else you won't get
ANYWHERE with ANY women.

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And now, let's hit a topic that has everything to do with what I
just shared with you...



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WHAT SEPARATES MEN OF CHARACTER FROM THE
"WANNABES"?


If you've read at least a few of these newsletters and are still
here, it's a good indication that you're interested in being a
man of solid, upstanding character.

You're all about building a solid foundation to your worldview,
your word is your bond and you do what you claim to believe in
even when nobody else is looking.

You want it to be evident to everyone around you exactly what kind
of man you are instead of it being subject to interpretation
depending on what crowd you're running with.

There's no doubt about it.  If you were interested in relying on
shortcuts, tricks or underhanded techniques to take advantage of
women (or anyone else, for that matter), you'd be looking elsewhere
for them.

And that's all good, of course.  After all, getting a hottie to
like you and spread her legs for you is one thing.  But finding a
beautiful, sexy woman who has strong character in her own right and
who you actually like as a fellow homo sapiens is another.

Indeed, it's a wise man who sticks to gorgeous sexy women who won't
end up ruining his life.  We here at X & Y Communications are
dedicated to that.

So with all that in mind, I've got a challenge for you today:  Is
your character truly as solid as you think it is?  Are you where
you'd really like to be in that respect?

Here's why I ask.  Some men are all about having upstanding
character, and they mean perfectly well.

Except they're cowards.

When they get down to it, the force of cowardice overrides any power
their character can ever muster.  That's because it's hard to have
true integrity when fear holds the ability to bring the whole
"house of cards" crashing down at any given moment.

For some guys, it's as simple as shying away from seeing the doctor
even when they know something's wrong and they should man-up and
get it taken care of.

Or they don't return calls from people who might bring tough or
challenging news, saying they're "too busy", etc.

Other guys don't chicken out until another man disrespects his wife
and his personal safety is at stake.  Instead of defending his
wife's honor, he simply attempts to brush the whole incident off as
if it were "nothing" and tries to convince his allegedly significant other
of the same.

Still other men don't waver until a big, potentially expensive
decision needs to be made.  Only then do they run away and put
their heads in the sand...hoping the issue will go away on its own.

So what's the real problem here?  That's pretty simple to define.

Yes...character is one of the "big four" traits that ignite high
quality femininity.

But masculinity is another one.  When you lack courage, your
masculinity as women define it comes into question.

That's damaging enough in and of itself.  But when you're a man\
who paints himself as having character, that directly implies
consistency.  However, when you turn tail and run in particularly
tough situations, that's anything BUT consistent.

A woman then doesn't know where the boundaries of your courage are,
and therefore doesn't know if she can trust you at precisely the
time she feels the need to depend upon you the most.

That's the point where your ability to make her feel safe and comfortable
is completely neutralized.

You aren't confident in the most challenging situations, therefore
she follows YOUR lead and loses confidence in you.

See the domino effect at play there?  Before you know it, every
aspect of the "big four" is compromised in your life, all because
you allowed cowardice to loom large over your character.

Want to cure this problem if you can somehow relate to it?  It's
easier said than done because you're going to have to take a deep
breath and man-up a few times here and there where you might have
previously done nothing.

But I promise you it will feel GOOD to be the man you already know
you should be, following through on your own principles of
character.

You'll have formed a new habit that will earn you greater respect
wherever you go (except, interestingly enough, from men of low
character...go figure).

Before I close, I do have a reliable indicator for you of when
cowardice just might be standing in the way of our character as men.

That's' when we find ourselves making excuses.  Those excuses are
the weapons cowardice uses to infiltrate your foundation as a man.


 
  "Well, I would do the right thing, except I couldn't because..."
 
 
  "On any other day I would have done what's right, but today I had
  to do something else instead."



Or how about this one?


 
  "Oh, I would have approached her and asked her out, but she
  probably has a boyfriend anyway."



Yes, even the act of approaching women you know you'd love to meet
is a matter of staying true to your character.  Do you truly believe you
should be meeting more women and thrilling them by being in their lives
or not?

Stop coming up with excuses in tough situations and get down to the
business of doing what you know deep down needs to be done...always.


Be Good,

Scot McKay





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