[Our Transitioning Times] Use Your Job Search Transition As a “Learning Experience”

Published: Wed, 07/19/23

 

Welcome
 

Dear Readers:

I am often asked by those not very familiar with the coaching profession, just what do you do as a Career Coach? Some mistakenly believe that I tell my clients exactly what they should do. While certainly I may look to influence them toward methods that have proven to have been successful for many job searchers, I will never directly tell them to pursue a particular tactic. Others believe I “find jobs” for my clients. That is not true also. I am not a recruiter. I do not either work for a company to find talent, nor do I work independently looking to place my clients in particular companies with openings. (I may if I know someone the client may want to speak to, set up an introduction if I feel their skill set aligns well with my contact, but that is not primarily what I do).  

My primary function is to be a facilitator, a sounding board, and a strategist for my clients. What are the type of job roles which they are targeting? Where are they able to find companies that need those type of professionals? How are their communication vehicles, (resume, Linked In profile, verbal introduction), set up to deliver those messages with those whom they are looking to connect? Where may the need to modify their strategy steps.

One of the other roles that I often take on is the role of instructor and presenter. This comes in the form of doing presentations on job search skills topics to audiences of small groups of job searching professionals.  When I really began focusing on Career Coaching as my vocation in 2011, one of my early exposures was in my local library. There was a group that met there on a regular basis called Northern New Jersey Professionals in Transition. I went to check out one of their meetings. It quickly became apparent that they were a job search support group, with job searchers helping share with each other different search techniques and strategies that had worked for them. Some of what was shared was based on anecdotal experience. Others items were shared from articles or presentations that members had read.

As I continued to be part of the group, I was happy to share some of my lessons learned during my career coaching studies with the Five O’Clock Club in New York. While certainly my intent was to help individuals as their private coach in one-to-one strategy sessions, I was more than open to sharing in a group setting where I was not being compensated monetarily for my time. Some may ask why I would do so? There are a variety of reasons.

As a budding entrepreneur, it had been made apparent to me that one way to gain exposure was to present to groups. Another reason was it helped reinforce for me that which I had learned in my coaching studies to share it with others. Ultimately, I also had always loved providing guidance and instruction to others. This gave me an opportunity to do so. It turns out, it also provided me so much more.

Soon I learned of other such groups around my local area that were like the group in our local library in my town. They too were often facilitated by career coaches such as myself. Many of them became networking partners to me. While it would seem strange to “partner” with the competition, the opposite was true. We each may have had specialties in how we ran our practices. Maybe one coach’s focus was on interviewing, another on resumes, another on a certain job search demographic, etc. We became kindred spirits for each other. Initially all these groups met in person, so we would travel to different locations around my home state to assist each other with programs and presenting. Once the pandemic became prevalent in 2020, just about all these groups became virtual/online in nature and remain such to this day. It cut down on the travel for the participants and the presenters. It opened the groups up to job searchers in other states that would have never been able to attend our groups before.

I was thinking about this as I recently looked at my upcoming calendar for the months of July and August. While I still facilitate my local group (which is virtual, but still called Northern New Jersey Professionals in Transition), I am scheduled to present to about 6 to 10 other groups in the upcoming two months. I have a catalogue of presentations that I do, and many are appealing to audiences that have not heard them. In some instances, I am the only one doing such a presentation or taking a slant on career search topic.

This month our focus will be on the importance of job searchers continuing to build their knowledge of the job search process, and their skill set in general as part of their career development. As usual, if you have any questions or items you would like to discuss with me, please feel free and reach out to me at
[email protected] or call me at (201) 306-9811. I look forward to hearing from you.

Tony Calabrese

www.absolutetransitions.com
[email protected]
(201) 306-9811


Use Your Job Search Transition As A “Learning Experience” 
 

One of the things I like to tell my clients is the following. “Your family and friends are wonderful people. They mean well, and have your best interests at heart. However, they are the worst people to usually help you with a job search.” You may say, wow that is harsh, or why would you say such a thing? Those closest to you have a lot of emotional investment in what you do. Often as opposed to asking you your thoughts on how you want to proceed, or what is your strategy process, there is a sense of feeling that they need to “tell you what to do.”

Not getting many interviews, you are likely to hear, that they see all these job openings online. Why are you not applying for all of them? You must not be trying hard enough. You are being too fussy in what you are looking for in a job.  And, while certainly as a coach, I have my own thoughts and feelings as to what I believe clients should do, I may approach it from the following. If the client feels frustrated that no one seems to understand what they are going through, I may ask them, whom they have considered that may help them with their search? If they say they do not know of anyone, I may suggest they at least attend a few job search support sessions to meet with others. In such sessions they usually find other individuals in search. There is usually a presentation each session on a meaningful set of strategies in conducting a job search. Additionally, what they often find is empathy from the other job searchers and facilitators in the group, since either they too are in job search at the same time, or have been at some time in their past.

During the presentation portion of the sessions, while they may hear guidance, some of which they have a hard time accepting or even a reluctance that they want to apply in their search, they still may pick up on several thought processes that do connect with them, and that they can see trying. If one has not had to search for a job in several years another reality may soon emerge. The skill sets required for the jobs in their profession may have changed significantly in recent time. Depending on their diligence in keeping up with those changing skill sets or perhaps having not been given the opportunity to be trained in them while they were working, they now have the ideal time to pick up those skill sets.

Many may say, I have no plans to put in multiple years toward a new degree. Or I do not have the finances to afford the classes. However, in the last several years, the ability to educate oneself on the disciplines needed or used in their current profession have gotten easier to receive. Training is continually available in an online format meaning that one can schedule how and when they take their classes on their own time, or at least possibly in some combination of live attendance, (in a virtual manner), and follow-up sessions in a recorded manner in a timeframe that works for them. Certification or testing sessions are given frequently at local sites in their area, meaning they can schedule when they are ready to take the final exams their discipline requires.  

For those that may have all the necessary requirements being asked for now, it is still a time to project ahead. What skills appear to be needed in the future for their discipline? What thoughts have they given to moving to a different aspect of their field? What may be needed to be required to meet the next level of job attainment? Again, while one is “in between jobs” or “in transition,” they may have the time to focus on the classes they need, as opposed to when they are working full-time and balancing work and family priorities.  

One other thing taking the time to improve your skills while you are in transition does, is send a positive message to prospective employers. Many of them many be populated with staff that have gone through job search transitions themselves. They may think back to such time and realize the value of using the time to improve one’s skill sets. Your ability to indicate you have done so and have an answer to the question, “What have you been doing since your last role ended,” enhances your candidacy in their eyes.

No question, job search is not pleasant. There can be some very difficult times during the process where one’s emotions are at a very low state. However, taking the time to invest in yourself, take advantage of the learning opportunities open to you, (whether through group sessions like the job search support groups or privately through your own independent studies), will benefit you not only at this point of your career life, but in developing the discipline you need to grow your career possibilities in the years to come.   


 
 
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July 2023 - Closing Thoughts

Stuck on an issue that you can’t move forward with in your life? Not sure what steps to consider taking in your job search? Absolute Transitions offers 1-hour complimentary consultations to any individual who wants to learn more about life or career (job search) coaching. You can take advantage of this offer by signing onto www.absolutetransitions.com and clicking the Complimentary Coaching Consultation tab. Or you can call me at 201-306-9811 to discuss. I’d love to hear from you.

Absolute Transitions coaching also continues to offer two very popular complimentary e-Courses. The course entitled “5 Key Steps in Searching for Your Next Job” is invaluable to those currently in job search or considering changing careers. “Overcoming Obstacles to Change Your Life” provides participants five choices on how to deal with conflict situations which come into their life. Sign into the www.absolutetransitions.com website to sign up by filling in your name and email in the appropriate sign-up boxes on the right hand side of the page.

If you are looking to move your career forward, suddenly find yourself out of a job or under employed, look to get help in your search. While a career coach is one option, there are several outstanding support groups likely to be in your area. Whether held at your local library, run by a church or by your state Department of Labor, don’t go through a job search alone. Those in search find that having support, (often just from other job seekers), helps to move a search forward in a productive manner. Another thing to keep in mind, has been since the advent of the COVID 19 crisis, many of these groups offer their sessions virtually, online.

If you have recently moved to an area, especially if you are accompanying a family member or friend who has moved due to a job transfer, consider your own needs. There is a lot to consider when you are the “accompanying partner.” There are acclimation issues, job search issues, settling children in school, etc. If you would like to discuss the type of support you likely may need, feel free to reach out to me, and I would be glad to discuss with you.

Over the last 2 years, I have been introduced to an outstanding new assessment tool of which I am a distributor. Known as the “Absolute Transitions Career Values Assessment,” it is based on 7 sciences. The tool provides those who take it feedback on their top 7 work values, if any of those values are out of alignment in their current life, the types of ways they work best, and the types of work environments which may be best for them. Please reach out to me at the email or phone numbers below to learn more.

If you have any questions on any of the material in this issue or a suggestion for a topic you would like to see covered in a future edition, please contact Tony at 201-306-9811 or reach out to him at [email protected], and he would be happy to discuss it with you.

Look for the next issue of “Our Transitioning Times” coming to you on August 16, 2023.



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Tony Calabrese
Absolute Transitions
http://absolutetransitions.com


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