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One of the things I like to tell my clients is the following. “Your family and friends are wonderful people. They mean well, and have your best interests at heart. However, they are the worst people to usually help you with a job
search.” You may say, wow that is harsh, or why would you say such a thing? Those closest to you have a lot of emotional investment in what you do. Often as opposed to asking you your thoughts on how you want to proceed, or what is your strategy process, there is a sense of feeling that they need to “tell you what to do.”
Not getting many interviews, you are likely to hear, that they see all these job openings online. Why are you not applying for all of them? You must not be trying hard enough. You are being too fussy in what you are looking for in a job. And, while certainly as a coach, I have my own thoughts and feelings as to what I believe clients should do, I may approach it from the following. If the client feels frustrated that no one seems to understand what they are going through, I may ask
them, whom they have considered that may help them with their search? If they say they do not know of anyone, I may suggest they at least attend a few job search support sessions to meet with others. In such sessions they usually find other individuals in search. There is usually a presentation each session on a meaningful set of strategies in conducting a job search. Additionally, what they often find is empathy from the other job searchers and facilitators in the
group, since either they too are in job search at the same time, or have been at some time in their past.
During the presentation portion of the sessions, while they may hear guidance, some of which they have a hard time accepting or even a reluctance that they want to apply in their search, they still may pick up on several thought processes that do connect with them, and that they can see trying. If one has not had to search for a job in several years another reality may soon emerge. The skill sets required for the jobs in their profession may have changed significantly in recent
time. Depending on their diligence in keeping up with those changing skill sets or perhaps having not been given the opportunity to be trained in them while they were working, they now have the ideal time to pick up those skill sets.
Many may say, I have no plans to put in multiple years toward a new degree. Or I do not have the finances to afford the classes. However, in the last several years, the ability to educate oneself on the disciplines needed or used in their current profession have gotten easier to receive. Training is continually available in an online format meaning that one can schedule how and when they take their classes on their own time, or at least possibly in some combination of live attendance, (in
a virtual manner), and follow-up sessions in a recorded manner in a timeframe that works for them. Certification or testing sessions are given frequently at local sites in their area, meaning they can schedule when they are ready to take the final exams their discipline requires.
For those that may have all the necessary requirements being asked for now, it is still a time to project ahead. What skills appear to be needed in the future for their discipline? What thoughts have they given to moving to a different aspect of their field? What may be needed to be required to meet the next level of job attainment? Again, while one is “in between jobs” or “in transition,” they may have the time to focus on the classes they
need, as opposed to when they are working full-time and balancing work and family priorities.
One other thing taking the time to improve your skills while you are in transition does, is send a positive message to prospective employers. Many of them many be populated with staff that have gone through job search transitions themselves. They may think back to such time and realize the value of using the time to improve one’s skill sets. Your ability to indicate you have done so and have an answer to the question, “What have you been doing since your last role ended,”
enhances your candidacy in their eyes.
No question, job search is not pleasant. There can be some very difficult times during the process where one’s emotions are at a very low state. However, taking the time to invest in yourself, take advantage of the learning opportunities open to you, (whether through group sessions like the job search support groups or privately through your own independent studies), will benefit you not only at this point of your career life, but in developing the discipline you need to grow
your career possibilities in the years to come.
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July 2023 - Closing Thoughts
Stuck on an issue that you can’t move forward with in your life? Not sure what steps to consider taking in your job search? Absolute Transitions offers 1-hour complimentary consultations to any individual who wants to learn more about life or career (job search) coaching. You can take advantage of this offer by signing onto www.absolutetransitions.com and clicking the Complimentary Coaching Consultation tab. Or you can call me at 201-306-9811 to discuss. I’d love to hear from you.
Absolute Transitions coaching also continues to offer two very popular complimentary e-Courses. The course entitled “5 Key Steps in Searching for Your Next Job” is invaluable to those currently in job search or considering changing careers. “Overcoming Obstacles to Change Your Life” provides participants five choices on how to deal with conflict situations which come into their life. Sign into the www.absolutetransitions.com website to sign up by filling in your name and email in the appropriate sign-up boxes on the right hand side of the page.
If you are looking to move your career forward, suddenly find yourself out of a job or under employed, look to get help in your search. While a career coach is one option, there are several outstanding support groups likely to be in your area. Whether held at your local library, run by a church or by your state Department of Labor, don’t go through a job search alone. Those in search find that having support, (often just from other job
seekers), helps to move a search forward in a productive manner. Another thing to keep in mind, has been since the advent of the COVID 19 crisis, many of these groups offer their sessions virtually, online.
If you have recently moved to an area, especially if you are accompanying a family member or friend who has moved due to a job transfer, consider your own needs. There is a lot to consider when you are the “accompanying partner.” There are acclimation issues, job search issues, settling children in school, etc. If you would like to discuss the type of support you likely may need, feel free to reach out to me, and I would be glad to discuss
with you.
Over the last 2 years, I have been introduced to an outstanding new assessment tool of which I am a distributor. Known as the “Absolute Transitions Career Values Assessment,” it is based on 7 sciences. The tool provides those who take it feedback on their top 7 work values, if any of those values are out of alignment in their current life, the types of ways they work best, and the types of work environments which may be best for them.
Please reach out to me at the email or phone numbers below to learn more.
If you have any questions on any of the material in this issue or a suggestion for a topic you would like to see covered in a future edition, please contact Tony at 201-306-9811 or reach out to him at [email protected], and he would be happy to discuss it with you.
Look for the next issue of “Our Transitioning Times” coming to you on August 16, 2023.
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