[Our Transitioning Times] The Answers May Change at Different Points of Your Career Journey

Published: Wed, 10/18/23

 

Welcome
 

Dear Readers:

I have had the pleasure to work with hundreds of job searchers over the last 12 years. One thing for certain is no two searches are alike. Even though the tools and methods I use as part of my coach training may be similar from one search to the next, the variable is always the client. Even the client themselves may not realize that where they are at that time in in their life may be is a significant variable to what they want out of their job search.

I recently became acquainted with a series of videos from Dr. Allen Hunt on YouTube. Dr. Hunt is a Life Coach, Author, and Speaker, in addition to being an individual of great faith. The videos that caught my eye were ones he has done on the 4 quarters of your life. Dr. Hunt views life as not being one where you have a first half of your life and a second half of your life, but as a life which is lived in quarters.

The first quarter of your life (say from birth to 20 years of age), are your formative years. This is where you will obtain most of your schooling. You will learn many of the values by which you eventually live. They become the foundation for the rest of your life as you move forward. The second quarter of your life is that period from ages 21 to 40. Those years are your building years. One is making decisions on what degrees they may pursue, what career direction they may take, what relationship decisions they may make, and what opportunities they will pursue. Once one reaches ages 41 to 60, they are now entering their third quarter or prime years. You are ideally living off those decisions you have made in your first 40 years. Your career ideally is at its peak. Your income potential is at its highest. One may be raising that family they started in their earlier years and strengthening your relationships. Once one is past 60 years of age, they are in the 4th quarter of their life.  If indeed they have lived well in the first 3 quarters, it can be a harvest time in their life. They can reap the rewards of the decisions they have made in the past, especially if they have planned well financially, and have done work that they truly found rewarding. It does not mean that one can sit back at that time and do nothing. What it can mean, is that they have an opportunity to both make decisions and continue learning to enhance the quality of their life as they reach the climax of their life. If the decisions of the first 3 quarters have not worked out well, the 4th quarter can be a time of trying to catch up and build on lessons not fully learned in one of the earlier quarters.

While Dr. Hunt’s vision of the 4 quarters of life may not work for everyone, I myself was able to equate it to much of what I encounter when working with those in the job search process. My job searchers that are in their 20’s and 30’s, are often looking to identify those companies and opportunities where they can learn new technologies and business strategies that will help them in future assignments in their career. Those searchers in their 40’s or 50’s, are looking to connect with that opportunity that will be the driving force for them to make the income they need to put their children through college, pay off the home they have purchased or built and land the position that will take them into what they term “their retirement years.” Often when reaching the point that they are 60 or beyond, clients I work with will indicate to me they choose to work for one of the following reasons. Perhaps their earlier years did not allow them to built up the financial level they needed, to be able to live a comfortable life in their later years. Others will say, they enjoy being active, and choose to work, but not at the same level of time and stress that they did in the preceding years. And, still others will say, they want to stay active, but the most important thing for them is to be involved with causes or activities either that always called to them, or where they could give back to the community around them.   

In this month’s feature, using Dr. Hunt’s ideas as a backdrop, I will look to tie in how different times of your life may influence the steps and approaches you may choose to take in your career search. As usual, if you have any questions or items you would like to discuss with me, please feel free and reach out to me at
[email protected] or call me at (201) 306-9811. I look forward to hearing from you.

Tony Calabrese

www.absolutetransitions.com
[email protected]
(201) 306-9811


The Answers May Change at Different Points of Your Career Journey
 

Think back on your career to date. What led you to accept the job roles in which you have previously worked? Were some due to the career of study you pursued in your high school, college and post graduate studies? If so, how did you decide the discipline you studied was right for you? Did you make the decision yourself, or were you “encouraged” by others (eg., family members, friends, someone you admired), to pursue work that direction?  
How did you find your first formal job after your education was completed? Did the company for which you did your first full time assignment come to your school’s campus and offer you an internship? Were you referred as a candidate by a relative or friend to the hiring manager of a company? Did you yourself apply to the company and go through their interview process?

How did subsequent job roles come about? Were you recruited by others while you were actively working for another company? Did you feel you needed to accept a job quickly, even if you felt that it did not meet all your needs or expectations? What kind of preparation did you do to get yourself ready for the interview process? Did you take time to develop, strengthen and refresh your resume? How did you prepare for the interview questions that you ultimately received?

In the ideal scenario (where you are working a “structured well developed job search process”), one would ideally do two steps in tandem to start out their search. One would be to “assess” where they were at that point in their career. The second would then be to do the “research” to determine how that in turn would translate into the preparation they would need to do for that next job role. Is there schooling or course work that would be needed to make sure you had the skill requirements for the roles you seek? What accomplishments did you have in past assignments that display how your skills exhibited from the past would transfer into opportunities in other industries, other job functions, other job openings?  

The questions asked above, (and others that I have not even listed), face all in job search. The answers often differ significantly depending on the time of your life when you are facing them in a job search. In your earlier years, (right out of school, and through jobs in your first 10 to 12 years), often the answers are focused on the opportunities that may provide you the best chance of learning the skills that are in demand in the profession you are pursuing. Yes, you may have financial needs. Certainly, you will want to be compensated fairly for your talents. However, in those building years, you may look to work at roles that make you a candidate for a future role in your career. The path to that role may be part of your research. And, that path may say, you will need to start out at an entry level position, followed by a lower-level management position, followed by an upper-level management position, before you are a candidate for the role you ultimately seek.

Once you have been working for some time, one may find themselves facing some obstacles they had not originally planned upon. The job function, industry, or field they pursued did not provide the satisfaction, enjoyment, or compensation which they hoped. Or their plans in terms of their personal life changed, in that instead of only having themselves to care for, they now had a spouse and children to support. In these later building years, into their peak earning years, that may drive decisions such as, what might be the best path to a new career trek. What studies may be involved? Are those studies ones that require a formal degree or certification? What skills and learnings from their past roles, may be used in the new work discipline? What ones may be considered obsolete, due to technology changes or ways of doing business that have changed?

What are your thoughts for work in the later years of your career? Are your thoughts to stop working completely? Is it a time of life where you have thought of starting your own small business? How much income will you need to live on at those times in your life? What costs and responsibilities that you had in your prime earning years will no longer be there? How active do you plan to be after your prime earning years? If so, what will keep you busy if you choose to have an active lifestyle?

The questions of what you may choose to do in terms of your career are there no matter what time of life or what quarter of your life you are in. In fact, the questions themselves often do not change. What changes is you, in terms of your values, your needs and your wants at various points along the way. Having the awareness to face the questions is the first step in the process. The next step is to continue exploring, researching, and trying until you find the answers that meet your need at that point in the journey.


 
 
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October 2023 - Closing Thoughts

Stuck on an issue that you can’t move forward with in your life? Not sure what steps to consider taking in your job search? Absolute Transitions offers 1-hour complimentary consultations to any individual who wants to learn more about life or career (job search) coaching. You can take advantage of this offer by signing onto www.absolutetransitions.com and clicking the Complimentary Coaching Consultation tab. Or you can call me at 201-306-9811 to discuss. I’d love to hear from you.

Absolute Transitions coaching also continues to offer two very popular complimentary e-Courses. The course entitled “5 Key Steps in Searching for Your Next Job” is invaluable to those currently in job search or considering changing careers. “Overcoming Obstacles to Change Your Life” provides participants five choices on how to deal with conflict situations which come into their life. Sign into the www.absolutetransitions.com website to sign up by filling in your name and email in the appropriate sign-up boxes on the right hand side of the page.

If you are looking to move your career forward, suddenly find yourself out of a job or under employed, look to get help in your search. While a career coach is one option, there are several outstanding support groups likely to be in your area. Whether held at your local library, run by a church or by your state Department of Labor, don’t go through a job search alone. Those in search find that having support, (often just from other job seekers), helps to move a search forward in a productive manner. Another thing to keep in mind, has been since the advent of the COVID 19 crisis, many of these groups offer their sessions virtually, online.

If you have recently moved to an area, especially if you are accompanying a family member or friend who has moved due to a job transfer, consider your own needs. There is a lot to consider when you are the “accompanying partner.” There are acclimation issues, job search issues, settling children in school, etc. If you would like to discuss the type of support you likely may need, feel free to reach out to me, and I would be glad to discuss with you.

Over the last 2 years, I have been introduced to an outstanding new assessment tool of which I am a distributor. Known as the “Absolute Transitions Career Values Assessment,” it is based on 7 sciences. The tool provides those who take it feedback on their top 7 work values, if any of those values are out of alignment in their current life, the types of ways they work best, and the types of work environments which may be best for them. Please reach out to me at the email or phone numbers below to learn more.

If you have any questions on any of the material in this issue or a suggestion for a topic you would like to see covered in a future edition, please contact Tony at 201-306-9811 or reach out to him at [email protected], and he would be happy to discuss it with you.

Look for the next issue of “Our Transitioning Times” coming to you on November 15, 2023.



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Tony Calabrese
Absolute Transitions
http://absolutetransitions.com


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