My theme for 2022 is worthiness. You must believe you are worthy of a beautiful life.
For those of us who grew up with trauma and abuse, it changes a child. When bad things happen, and people tell you mean things, you believe it is your fault. You learn to see yourself through a 10% lens. I spent years healing the wounds of my childhood, so I know I am worthy of love.
I am worthy of a great marriage, and I know I am half of that equation. Love yourself fully first. When you do, it is easier to stop focusing on the 10% things that do not matter. You then see your partner through a loving 90% lens.
I taught our children that, no matter how someone treats you, you are worthy of love! Don’t let one unhappy 10% person's opinion change how you see yourself. You are worthy of good friends. Don’t hang out with negative people.
Being a speaker exposes you to people who tell you what they think of you. There will always be unhappy people who will try and make you feel unworthy. Run an ethical business, do the best you can and be a kind, loving person in the world. You know what that is? Good enough!! You are good enough, even if one 10% troll on social media tells you otherwise.
If I asked you if you feel worthy, what would you say? If you would say yes, that is GREAT; continue doing more of what you are doing.
If your answer is no, then this is the year to work on why you don’t feel worthy. What happened to you to change how you felt about yourself? Heal that wound. Don’t waste another year doing the same thing.
You are worthy. Now all you have to do is believe it.
Sister in worthiness,