"What?" you might say. Your hangups of course.
Next time you are saying to the mirror or to your partner/ friend "I hate my....." or "I wish my ...... wasn't so big/ small/ fat/ thin/ straight/frizzy" (fill in the blanks etc.) just have a think about where this thought has come from. Who has told you these 'flaws' and why are they flaws?
Who says what is perfect?
You were born perfect and not caring about what you looked like in the mirror. When did you decide that something about you wasn't perfect and why? Who said it and was it meant in the way your subconcious has stored it. You see, it might have been said as a joke or by a child being cruel as children can be. My favourite I get is a parent saying "I'm so sorry you have my thighs/ nose/ short legs" passing on the ultimate present of their
hangups! Food for thought. Feedback welcome.