Do you want to START things with the feeling you get only after you've begun it's MASTERY?
Do you expect to use the feelings of comfort, safety, security and confidence
as a signal that beginning this “NEW” thing is a good idea. Your ego is truly trying to brainwash you on this.
It has convinced you to look for signs that will never ever be present at the commencement of a new skill project or activity. NEVER.
The ego convinces you, you can't start coaching or dating or learning to dance, writing a book or
starting a business because it feels “uncomfortable” and you have doubts and you're afraid. When you feel comfortable and secure and confident THAT'S your "sign.” THEN you're going the right way...
I call Bullsh--.
If children used "comfort" as a standard, the entirety of human civilization would cease to evolve!
At some point
tying your shoe was unnatural and uncomfortable. Remember? Multiplication tables. Riding a bike. Learning to drive a car - especially a manual transmission. Cooking. SEX. (I don’t care what Nora Roberts has to say about it [very famous romance author], your first time was likely not comfortable and confident.
Think about it. What are you NOT doing because it’s uncomfortable? A move. A break up. Returning to the gym. Standing your ground with your kids. What are you writing yourself a “pass” on?
What is that costing you?
It is WAY more likely that discomfort is a spiritual GO FORWARD sign than run away sign...