The War: Step 4 - Honor Your Freedoms & Ways to Help

Published: Wed, 03/23/22

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The War: Step 4 Honor Your Freedoms & Ways to Help

A very good thing about the war is that it

draws our attention to our freedoms.

During the most difficult parts of the Covid onslaught, many of us were so afraid that we were willing to trade our freedoms for some greater sense of security.

History has shown that this is almost always a mistake.

Those ‘given’ our freedoms

very rarely, if ever, voluntarily return them.

I am a black American woman with a license to practice law, owner of a Law Firm.

It is not lost on me, that as recently as my grandmother’s generation

I COULD NOT EXIST.

I was free to go to college.

I was free to go to law school.

I was free to travel to 25 countries and counting.

I was free to form a business and represent clients in court.

I was free to move to Australia to marry my white husband.

I can get in a car (I own) and drive to a grocery store where there’s food, which I have the money to buy, no matter how expensive food or gas gets.

I am FREE. And so are you.

Thank you to everyone who stood up before me and fought & begged, so I can enjoy freedoms (without a thought) others don’t have.

Let the energy of that thought be one of gratitude and awe and not indignation.

The only political advice I will give you is to be mindful of political parties that want to “temporarily borrow“ your freedoms.

This is a very good time to be grateful for the rights that we have and the freedoms that we take for granted daily.

Tv news is showing us people who no longer have the freedom to go to work, to leave their country, to give birth in a clean, safe hospital or to eat what they want for dinner tomorrow.

To honour their struggle, be mindful of the freedoms that you have.

Do not take your rights for granted. Reflect on a time when someone else had to stand up and literally FIGHT to earn them.

When I was ready to make a donation to help the many, many people crushed by the war, I only had to look in my inbox to find options.

There are many ways & places to give. Find one that suits you.

And only give an amount that you are GLAD to give, so that your goodwill goes with it.

3 Places You Can Honor the Freedom They Fight For & Send Help:

The United Way Global Fund

Airbnb is helping house Refugees

Help Pets in Ukraine

Godspeed to those fighting to keep what we have.

In Joy,

P.S. Do NOT feel guilty for living in, celebrating and using your freedoms

right now.

If you are a business person, sell your stuff. If you are an artist, create.
If you are a mom, drive to soccer practice!

Don’t stop living. Don’t avoid indulgences. Just enjoy the hell out of it and honor the life & country that still allows them.

We do not serve those who are struggling by living our life from a fear-based place. Live fully by:

1) Letting your feelings flow,

2) Creating more peace at home,

3) Fixing a problem your size and

4) Honoring your freedoms.

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After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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