4 Tales of Magic, Intuition & Grace: #3 It's Raining Men ☔

Published: Wed, 06/15/22

Photo of Tanya, Coach for Alpha Women Entrepreneurs

I coach women. Alpha women to be exact.

But did you know I Coach men?

I don’t advertise for men.

And I don’t “speak” to them in my work.

And yet, when it was the right man, I’ve coached him.

Men from house husbands up to a world famous celebrity

earning millions yearly.

But I haven’t coached a man in a long while…

clearly God had plans to change this!

Read on!

4 Tales of Magic, Intuition & Grace: #3 It's Raining Men ☔

When I traveled home after over 2 1/2 years away

I knew I would be very busy.

I knew I would have a lot of work to do.

So after 30 hours flying to Chicago and being with my mom, sister and stepbrother, it was time to fly from Chicago to Dallas to spend time with my dad, stepmom and stepsister.

I had a whirlwind of helping, supporting, connecting and fun in Dallas.

Plus, all the “last minute-ing“ for the photo shoot.

I felt the “nudge” to do the bulk of my repacking early.

So 2 days before I left, I dedicated over 6 hours to it.

Yes. You read that right!

Everytime I arrived somewhere, by opening up my suitcases, shopping and adding more weight and fragile accessories- I kept destroying my careful packing.

To pull off my shoot, I ordered from multiple, global clothing stores

and had it all shipped to Chicago and Dallas for try on.

Dallas received probably 85% of my orders. They were all piled up in the first room like adult fantasy Christmas morning!

I’d flow into Dallas 5 pounds overweight, so I KNEW I’d need to buy a 3rd suitcase.

Imagine going through EVERY piece of nice jewelry you own, and packing it all for possible future outfit matches.

So…yep. 6 hours packing all the new buys, sorting everything to create

8 complete Photoshoot outfits. At this point I have 4 pairs of shoes,

5 pairs of heels PLUS 1 pair of boots.

Make no mistake that it involves miracles and magic to fit all my haul!

That was so tiring, that I left my final packing for the morning of my flight.

GPS said the airport is 32 mins away the night before.

Morning of? 50 mins. So, going on 4 hours sleep, I wake early enough to get us out the door with 1 hour 15 mins to arrive on time.

Ha!

Two words. Dallas Traffic.

Despite that good start, it took an hour and a half. Eating up my buffer.

Because I need a nap and want comfy legroom, I’ve paid for an upgraded boarding position.

I received permission to board the plane 3rd. 1,2 and me!

Except…I’m late.

I sprint to the gate as numbers 33 and 34 stroll aboard.

A moment of panic hits me, as I visualize folks taking the precise awesome seat I wanted!

And then…I remember who I am and who I work for!

I dash onboard. And walk back until I find the Emergency Exit row that has just 2 seats and double legroom.

And…it’s empty. Waiting for me. I shake my head in gratitude.

A few minutes later a young man sits in the row ahead of me.

A young pilot.

And inside of 5 minutes, I understand why this spot was held for me.

So I could coach HIM.

The next 3 hours plus are his. And we cover everything.

God. Universe. Why some people suffer. What kills relationships.

He’s the Beta son of an Alpha mom. He’s a smart pilot getting ahead but worried over money.

He doesn’t believe in God but he believes in me. By the end of the flight, just as we stand to get our bags he literally makes a comment mentioning God!

We both caught it and just laughed with pleasure.

He needed to know EXACTLY what I teach. And not for one moment was I sleepy.

These meetings happen to me a lot but they are always with Alphas.

We both left the flight happy and floating. He had a reading list and resources from me and a new perspective for his life. He said ,

“I was meant to sit there.”

Boom!

Now to navigate to the Uber lot with (3) 51 lb suitcases and carry on.

The Uber pick up lot moved since I last flew out of LA and I cannot find it.

Finally, I think to ask my intuition. A man is walking along and it nudges me to ask him.

He says whatever you do, don’t get on that bus (signs say to do exactly that). Just walk that over way.

He’s right! I get there. Order a nicer Uber and wait. I text the driver I have 3 large bags.

He arrives and is shocked at…my pile of luggage!

He grumbles and jams it in his car.

His first question, what do you do? I say I help Alpha women struggling in their marriages.

And the next hour flies by as this great, burly bear sized man chokes up and admits his marriage is failing.

I help him understand the impact of his gambling addiction and multiple relapses on his wife and adult children.

I help him understand that she cannot forgive HIM, until she forgives HERSELF for repeatedly taking him back.

He is soo grateful he tries to pay me. He says “God put you in my car.”

Unloads my bags and has to give me a hug. I send him resources for his wife as my gift.

He hands me over to an Airbnb run by the most loving “mom” ever who adopts me for the week. (Another magical story!)

Leaving this dream Airbnb at the end of the week, I decide to pay a BUNCH to get a huge SUV to move me and my luggage.

Next guy arrives. (Yeah, you guessed it!)

He loads me up and starts off on our 1.5 journey.

He asks: What do you do? I smile to myself as I tell him I help Alphas who are struggling in their marriage.

His eyes grow wide and he starts to stumble over his words.

He’s in a divorce right now! He’s going to court in 2 weeks. He’s in big trouble.

If you can believe it. He happened to have his ENTIRE legal file in his car with him.

Yes. I ended up reading the entire legal file and giving him comprehensive legal advice to correct the idiot first attorney he hired.

I had to record it all just to get him to watch the road, as my directions were life and death to him.

When we arrive at my new place I discover, I was his FIRST passenger on his FIRST day driving for Uber.

He says, “God put you in my car.”

I decide to drop my bags and head to local mall while they ready my room.

He takes me for free. And he THEN buys me flowers from a stoplight vendor.

It was Raining Men who needed what I knew.

I was in tears over how trusted I am to deliver last second help to people in crisis.

Did you see it?

Did you see the urge to pack early or I’d never have made it. The grace in crazy traffic. The magic of the perfect seat still open for me.

The power of the Universe placing not one, not two but 3 men in my trip ALL needing exactly what I know.

I say all the time I work for God.

I consider these meetings to be favors or assignments

that I always get bonuses for.

P.S. I suspect God wants me to create something for our men. We’ll see. I’m open to serve however I’m asked.

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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