What Do You Really W.A.N.T.? Question 1- What Are You WAITING FOR? 🎂

Published: Wed, 07/06/22

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It is my birthday morning

and I am on vacation in Melbourne Australia.

Melbourne is around 8 1/2 hours south east of me and freezing this time of year, as it’s the dead of winter!

My very first birthday present was God sending me what I was supposed to be writing on today and this month :-)

I want you to ask yourself my questions and follow down the rabbit hole where they lead, to help you learn what you REALLY want.

Let’s go!

Question 1: What are you WAITING FOR?

This month, use these questions either in general if you’re not sure what you really want, or specifically on the thing you believe is your Holy Grail.

When you’re asking this question, notice if you are looking for some kind of external “permission“.

Did you know it’s very common that people want to lose a certain amount of weight BEFORE they join a gym??

They designate a certain weight loss or clothing size before they decide they can go be in the gym regularly. That’s what they’re waiting for.

(And yes, you’ve probably heard me say many times that your weight, WEIGHT, is usually about waiting, WAITING.)

I’ve coached many coaches.

And invariably, my baby coaches are “waiting“ for some special certification, some nearly impossible to get connection or a pat on the head from whoever they view as their Dalai Lama.

Be kind to yourself! Ask and expect an answer.

When I think of what I really want, am I “waiting for” something outside of me (often that you cannot control) to move ahead?

When I was first called to help Alphas with their marriages, my head wanted to WAIT FOR my own marriage to become perfect! Do you see the trap that would’ve kept me from starting? And you too.

When you look, you will find the “something” that you are waiting for that is blocking you from moving towards what you really want. It only SOUNDS like you are being patient.

LESSON: When you are waiting for something (external permissions) you do NOT yet really want, what you want. You want the safety more.

See it?

On your marks.

Get set…

ASK.

P.S. This is view from my birthday highrise at dawn.

I love that my no matter where in the world I’ve been (like writing blog, sitting on a sidewalk, at night, in the Philippines, outside a fast food place to pick up some WiFi!) I always get your coaching blog out.

Instead of seeing inconvenience of it,

I’m feeling proud on birthday that I’ve held my commitment.

This December will be 7 years of giving my teaching away for free in my coaching blog :)

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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