This month, use these questions either in general if you’re not sure what you really want, or specifically on the thing you believe is your Holy Grail.
When you’re asking this question, notice if you are looking for some kind of external “permission“.
Did you know it’s very common that people want to lose a certain amount of weight BEFORE they join a gym??
They designate a certain weight loss or clothing size before they decide they can go be in the gym regularly. That’s what they’re waiting for.
(And yes, you’ve probably heard me say many times that your weight, WEIGHT, is usually about waiting, WAITING.)
I’ve coached many coaches.
And invariably, my baby coaches are “waiting“ for some special certification, some nearly impossible to get connection or a pat on the head from whoever they view as their Dalai Lama.
Be kind to yourself! Ask and expect an answer.
When I think of what I really want, am I “waiting for” something outside of me (often that you cannot control) to move ahead?
When I was first called to help Alphas with their marriages, my head wanted to WAIT FOR my own marriage to become perfect! Do you see the trap that would’ve kept me from starting? And you too.
When you look, you will find the “something” that you are waiting for that is blocking you from moving towards what you really want. It only SOUNDS like you are being patient.
LESSON: When you are waiting for something (external permissions) you do NOT yet really want, what you want. You want the safety more.
On your marks.