To My Dearest Alpha,
Just thinking of you, makes me smile. It was in discovering
who I was, that I learned who and what you are.
Our Patterns, Struggles and Fears? All the same.
Our calling to Teach? To serve? Same.
Our ability to rescue, to fix, to plan and to pull off the near impossible? Same again.
Our dark sides are the same too.
The habit of sacrificing too much for love,
suppressing our needs, setting the bar for us to low? Same.
The difficulty asking for help? Attracting Beta men who are terrified of our emotions, yet crazily emotional?
The sadness of feeling no one has our back? That we have to OverAlpha (OA) everything we do, just to get crumbs back?
The fear of being seen as an imposter because you are a hot mess inside but SOO calm for everyone and everything else OUTSIDE? Same.
I love you because I was Alpha and I GET you.
Even though I am the leader of Alpha women,
I’m no longer Alpha, because I am balanced now.
I love you and I want that balance for you.
I want you to feel good about how you
look in the mirror coming out of the shower.
I want you to raise children that you like, not just love.
I want you to want what you want. What you really want! And ask for it even when it doesn’t look like you can get it.
I want you to break the habits that have
you selling your time and skills and energy to the lowest bidder.
I want you to understand the damage your mom and dad did to you, even if they didn’t mean it, so you can heal it and break that cycle so your children never have to walk the path that you’ve
I want you to have LOVE. I want you to feel cherished. I want you to have abundance and overflow. I want you to have teeth gritted sexual pleasure.
I want you to be able to go shopping without ever checking your bank account.
I want for you what God and Universe and Life want for
you, for you to be bigger and to love more and to learn to receive what you GIVE.
I want you to learn to understand yourself so well that you never need a coach to get through a tough time.
I want you to have a close knit circle of female friends, ride or die girlies, that get you and have your back.
I want you to stop fighting with your daughter and show her the love that your mother didn’t show you, so she can become independent, safe, feminine and beloved.
I want you to stop making your son soft, so that he
can become a balanced strong man that protects and provides for the women in his life.
I want you to be able to recognize when you’re in a relationship that is “one-way.” I want you to be able to speak up out of love and not anger.
I want you not to be terrified if loving yourself means...starting over.
I want all the good for you that your mother should’ve wanted for you.
I love you Alpha. I have written this coaching blog, for free, as my love letter to you for over seven years, without fail, without
I am HERE for you. I figured out how to stay here for you, even as I evolve.
Find my teachings.
Tell the Truth.
Learn the Art of Self Rescue from me.