What Do You Really W.A.N.T.? Question 2- What Are You ALLOWING? 🍩

Published: Wed, 07/13/22

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The weird thing? It’s neither obvious,

nor easy, to want what you really want.

In fact, we tend to block and obscure what we want.

Last week, you should’ve discovered

what you are “Waiting for” to give you permission.

Now let’s take a look at what you are… Allowing.

What Do You Really W.A.N.T.? Question 2- What Are You ALLOWING? 🍩

Question 2: What am I ALLOWING in my life?

You could also ask this question another way…
What am I AVOIDING in my life?

(Use which ever one resonates with you the strongest.)

Allowing can be a very powerful version of this question,

because “allowing” things doesn’t seem as much like sabotaging

yourself as “avoiding” does. It’s sneakier.

If you believe what you really want is to have vibrant health, then ask why you are allowing yourself to eat at 9:30 PM?

Why are you allowing yourself to buy the $27 online fitness programs, but never get past module one?

If what you really want is a better relationship, then ask yourself why are you allowing your mate to curse at you when he’s angry?

What we are “Allowing" says a lot about what it is we REALLY want.

Now, I’m going to be harsh, to be clear:

You are telling the Universe that you want more

of whatever you ALLOW. Period.

So our “Allowing" has a very insidious way of keeping us from the things in our life that we say we really want.

This week, take a look at what you are “Allowing" that is dead opposite of what you say you really want.

You don’t even have to look for the close calls, just notice the allowing‘s that are DEAD OPPOSITE of where you imagine you want to go.

As long as you continue to tolerate whatever you’re tolerating, you can expect it will keep sabotaging what you really want.

If Question 2 works better for you using the word “avoiding”,

it’s the same concept.

What are you turning a blind eye to,

that screams the opposite of what you really want?

I stepped off my super awesome health wagon when I returned from the USA tour. And I’m almost ready to get fully back on track. (Almost!)

I asked my husband to stop at the store to pick up sour cream for dinner.

I know this means that he will come home with a bag full of sugary treats for both of us.

I should've texted him NOT to get me anything. I didn't.

That omission falls squarely under the category of “Allowing.“

See it?

The way you reach what you REALLY want, is to first remove everything that you have control of, that’s blocking it.

If you are “Allowing“ something that keeps you from your desired goal,

you are lying to yourself.

Stop it.

What Do You Really W.A.N.T.?

Waiting For…
Allowing…

Next week: Need...

P.S. He did good! This a chocolate bender of his 3 favorites, not mine!

Flake, Cherry Ripe and Cadbury Milk Chocolate Bar were on sale for $1 each. (And yes, you have to learn NEW candy bars when you move to a different country!)

Instead of texting him, I sent out a wish that he not bring me sugar

and he “got it.”

Watch what you are Allowing Alphas!

It will tell you where you really are.

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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