What Do You Really W.A.N.T.? Question 3- What Do You NEED?🥛

Published: Wed, 07/20/22

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Today will be a short but very powerful lesson

that will change your life if you let it in.

Alphas “filter” their needs.
Stop it.

What Do You Really W.A.N.T.? Question 3- What Do You NEED?🥛

My True Needs - What They Won’t Do

= What I “Call” My Needs

Your emotional needs are identical to your needs for water, air and food.

We can’t opt out of them or diminish them. Oh but how we try to!

Question 3: What Do You Really NEED?

Mostly, if I ask you what you need, to help you figure out what you really want, you wouldn’t be able to answer me.

Your mind will immediately go to the needs of OTHERS around you,

which you know better than your own, because you spend most of your time trying to fulfill them.

When asked about YOUR needs, your conscious answer equates to:

“this is what I think I can get“, “this is what I think I can get by with,” and “this would be nice one day.”

Those replies sound like I’m asking you about a luxury vacation in Bali!

I’m asking about your NEEDS!

Alphas tend to disown the entirety of our needs.

Rather, we only own, confess to and seek out the portion of our needs that we THINK is still possible to get (i.e. someone can be made to give us or traded for).

There is a massive difference between what you NEED and what your husband, your boss or even your best friend, will GIVE you.

This week look deep. Look for what you need, that you don’t let yourself “see” on a daily basis, because you believe you can’t get it.

Hint: if you spend all of your time disowning your needs,

don’t expect to be able to fulfill your wants. Needs come first.

P.S. Needs are ALWAYS Met. Seriously.
Did that sound strange to you? Needs are always met.
Needs are NOT negotiable things.

You are not walking around with the majority of your needs unmet.

Enter the creepy part: you just don’t know HOW your needs are BEING met.

When you don’t know HOW your needs are being met, it is a solid bet that something jinky, negative, manipulative, fear-based and/or controlling is sourcing your unmet needs.

This is why it’s so important that we own the fullness of our needs consciously, so we meet them intentionally and NOT in a proverbial “emotional back alley.”

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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