Thrill. Thrill is not a synonym for “like“ or “pretty good.“
If something THRILLS you it’s freaking amazing! It’s almost like an electricity that you can feel in your body that shifts you immediately into a place of childlike joy. THAT is to be thrilled.
Question 4: What THRILLS You?
So ask yourself the final question in this series of W.A.N.T.
- what lights me up from the inside out?
I’ll give you a moment to dig into that. And while you do, I’ll explain why the W, the A, and the N were all about things that BLOCK you from knowing what you really want.
ONLY one of the four letters was positive. Why? Because wanting what you really want and figuring out what that IS, is 80% about you handling your blocks and only 20% about the PASSION.
Pareto’s Principle. The 80/20 rule is in everything.
You need to spend about 80% of your time figuring out what was keeping you away from your heart’s desire BEFORE you could finally surface WHAT that desire is and really feel it.
Whatever thrills you, you don’t need permission for it to thrill you.
When something thrills you, you don’t work against it.
And whatever thrills you, you don’t water down based on anyone else.
So what is it for YOU?
Mine? God asked me to elevate my private coaching to Ultra High Net Worth Women.
That’s what I REALLY want.
W- Waiting For
I am the best in the world at what I do and yet I was tempted to wait for a “perfect marriage“ to start coaching.
Silly. God perfected my teachings THROUGH my marriage.
A- Allowing the Opposite
To begin to do what I am called to do I had to completely shut down my main stream coaching. Meaning that there is no long-term coaching with me under six figures anymore.
Had I continued to coach my beloved mainstream Alphas, I would be “allowing” the opposite of where I wanted to go.
N- My True Needs, Not What’s Easier
It’s easier for me to stay where I’ve already established mastery.
It’s harder for me to reach up, to become a source to some of the most powerful women on the planet, to influence their lives and families towards love and inner peace.
I won’t water down what I really need, which is to be of service in a way that changes the world.
T- Thrills Me
You’ve all heard that there’s a small percentage of families that hold something like 50% or better of the worlds wealth.
It thrills me to work with those Alphas. It thrills me to see the positive change that trickles down when I save a marriage, restore a child’s relationship and undo the ravages of fear, isolation and entitlement in these families.
I am thrilled to want what I really want. When you want what you really want, it really doesn’t matter what other people think of your dream or your goal.
It really doesn’t matter if they understand it.
It really doesn’t matter if THEY think you can reach it.
Because you’re not waiting for their permission.
Because everything you’re doing is in alignment with your dream.
Because what you’re doing fulfills your deepest needs and THRILLS you.