Why Can’t I Know NOW?!
Remember, the Purpose is the overall goal or thing that you are called to do and the Mission is the “how” of it.
For this training, Purpose & Mission are a single, hidden
Here’s THE clearest answer:
To uncover your Purpose and to receive the pieces of your Mission require MORE life experience, Trust and Emotional tools than you have right now.
“Wait a second… That’s it? The reason I don’t know what my purpose or mission is is because I am… Not… Ready
But now I’m going to explain something that
you’ve probably experienced that’s confused you.
Maybe you can think back a few years ago, when you were absolutely, positively sure that you found your “thing.“
And you dove down that rabbit hole, you took those classes, you invested that money you did whatever it was and lo and behold discover that it wasn’t actually your life mission.
Can I explain those red herrings?
Yes! They were not red herrings.
Alphas are do or die creatures. We are all or nothing. In order to get us to deeply experience or learn something, we have to be motivated to go 110% in.
If the Universe presents something to you and says:
“Hey, this is just a learning experience for you and you’ll need this tool in 17 years…”. How motivated would you really be to do your best? To suffer? To fight through all manner of difficulty?
But… If you think that whatever it is you’ve got in your teeth into right now, is THE thing. You go all in.
And you fight through whatever you need to fight through and you actually learn whatever it is that life wants you to learn.
I thought I had my Purpose and Mission before now.
The avenues that called me were not my FINAL life‘s Purpose or Mission.
But they were necessary!
These were choices that led me to have emotional depth and deeper trust in life, to be ready for my Mission now.
So if you’ve ever thought that all these deep passions that you had were somehow a fluke, or distraction, they were not.
They were the golden bricks on your yellow brick road.
Let me show you some of my golden steppingstones:
Led to become a scientist (a physicist
specifically) - to study engineering and I got very good at analyzing how systems, people & processes work and don’t work.
Led to become a lawyer (a high conflict divorce lawyer specifically) - Then led away from a love of re-organizing corporations to
re-organizing RELATIONSHIPS under extreme stress.
Led to become Ordained Minister - to deepen and clarify that my role (one day!) was to work & speak for God.
Led to become a business coach - to understand marketing and how fix dysfunctional processes & businesses people.
Led to become The Life Purpose Catalyst - led to discovering I can unlock a clients life purpose in a single phone call as their life coach.
Led to become The Alpha Women Coach - to hone in on the my exact tribe.
Mastering the ladies who are what I AM.
Led to The Art of Self Rescue - The Alpha woman heals & steps up to systematize her teachings and teach groups of Alphas.
Led to be The Family Prophet - to finally, finally, finally own that I am in fact a Prophet (weird but true!) and am called to speak and teach Alpha women to end struggle in marriages.
Led to be The High Net Worth Relationship Consultant - to joyfully step upwards to guide High Net Worth Alphas as their Family Prophet to teach them to Love without Sacrifice.
That was a lot of words but I feel like it was helpful for some of you to literally see the LONG, twisty yellow brick road that I went down.
Please know that at every single step on that path, I thought I was done!
I thought that the Purpose that I was working on was THE one for the rest of my life, so I went all in on it!
My total commitment to it let me learn the lessons and gather the tools from that experience that allowed me to then be “promoted“ to the next level.
There are nine steps between me starting college 31 years ago,
and where I am now.
I even tried to refuse to leave a couple steps, notably the lawyer step.
The path to your final Purpose and Mission is a mystery until, much like a video game, you’ve played all the lower levels and gathered up all the coins and tools and gifts.
Let it be a mystery! Dive into where you are.
It’s where you’re supposed to be right now and you will not get “promoted“ until you finish this level anyway.