Time to Pick Your Holiday WORD!🥂

Published: Wed, 11/30/22

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It’s time to take control of your holiday season.

If you’ve been with me for awhile, this teaching is a timely reminder.

Let’s get you feeling less stressed

& safer between now and New Year’s Day.

Holidays kinda suck. Sorry not sorry.

They are packed full and stressful with family. And we Alphas are usually in charge of making sure EVERYONE ELSE gets what they want.

You try to protect every last body…(not limited to and even including visiting family dogs)…BUT you.

So how can we take back YOUR holiday?

Pick ONE word, as your energy and mood’s focus.

My word this holiday season is: Easily.

I am focused on doing things EASILY.

I am choosing to decline tasks that don’t FEEL EASY.

I will step back from any situation over the holidays that begins to get stressful or complicated.

Not Easy? NOT INTERESTED.

And next, figure out the ONE thing you really want to happen over Christmas/New Years. The ONE thing you’ll take steps to ensure,

plan and control.

Why?

Because I recommend that you prepare yourself to let go of, get unattached to and take the “it has to happen” control/planning energy off EVERYTHING else.

Done perfectly, you communicate to your family what your ONE thing is. (So they know better than to impede it!)

You can also invite them to figure out and each share their “ONE” must happen thing is.

This introduces total flexibility into the holidays which will prevent a great deal of drama, demands and chaos.

My ONE must happen thing?

My kitchen remodel and it’s last major bits - stone countertops and granite sink arrive December 7th & 8th. That’s it!

(Note: Only an Alpha decides to update her 48 year old kitchen with less than 2 months to Christmas, in an island country that considers being “laid back” a national aspiration.

)

My expectations outside of that are set to LOW.

Pick ONE thing to control.

Pick ONE focus to hold yourself steady.

And let the rest of the holidays come and go. (Easily.) We’ll be fine.

P.S. A small note on the power of focus.

It really should’ve been INSANE to try to arrange all of the tradesmen, craftsman and vendors to get my kitchen update done in 48 days, start to finish, at a time when everyone is booked out 4 to 6 months in advance.

But you know what? It’s been done… Easily!

Because I have been relentlessly focused on… Easy

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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