Remember, whatever you are going to STOP should bring your love situation relief or protection.
I have checked in with myself three different times now
and found I do not have something I need to STOP for Love.
That means that I’ve done a really good job of ending those things before now. I don’t have anything running (that I’m aware of) that’s harming or blocking love for me, so nothing needs to be ended.
I literally coach love, so I was surprised & then super proud to realize this!
Here’s three examples that you might want to look at stopping for love:
- STOP expecting this person will leave you.
- STOP beating yourself up more than 48 hours after a mistake. Let it
- STOP making excuses for someone disappointing you on a clear agreement.
Fearful expectations harm you and their trust in you.
Endlessly replaying your mistakes erodes your confidence.
And making excuses for their clear boundary violation disgusts you with yourself, damaging your
What can you STOP that will bring relief or stop harming love for you?
My Go! for Love is more Celebrating!
It’s a pretty big deal to discover I don’t have anything actively blocking love for me. (Earlier in my life I had soo many blocks Lego asked me to spokesmodel! )
Celebration is a fun part of the energy of Love.
I’m celebrating how deeply loved I feel
WITHOUT having to force anyone else to change!
Translation: I feel loved without ME needing to
CONTROL or SACRIFICE to get it. Huge!
The Go! of celebrating more is such a good thing!
I’d fallen out of the habit
The energy of celebration is like taking joy and gratitude,
and duct taping them together.
Those are vibrations you want to HAVE,
so you ATTRACT back more of the same!
With celebration as my Go! I can attract goodies and opportunities on anything! Not just in Love.
So what is your Go!?
What will you START doing to Give Yourself Better Love?