Choose Your Successes in a NEW WAY Next Year:
Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.Â
-Henry David Thoreau
Simple Step #1: Take a look at the path you set for yourself this year.Â
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Where was it harder than it needed to be?
Figure out what is the “stuff“ that you have to do most of the time and the process you have to focus on.
Then… make sure that the stuff you have to do the majority of the time, is stuff that you LIKE doing and are good at.
Think about it. If the stuff you have to do
80% of the time is stuff you either are NOT good at or do NOT like doing, it won’t matter that your 80% gives you the 20% you ARE looking for.
You will be miserable and unhappy by the time you get to your “reward.“
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“The secret of success is to do the common thing uncommonly
well.”Â
-John D. Rockefeller Jr.
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Simple Step #2: Let go of the the pursuit of the “big, huge hairy, never
heard of thing” and Bruce Lee Jedi master something you already DO.
Look at this year.Â
Where could you have stepped back from the
complexÂ
and mastered the simple?Â
Spanx is a BILLION DOLLAR COMPANY. She cut the legs off freaking control top panty hose people! Not
HARD. Not even novel.
If you are my age you remember wearing hose just to “smooth” yourself out, right?
Helping women struggling in marriage is…common. But it’s what I do for Alphas better than anyone in the world. It is the common MASTERED.Â
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“Success has to be measured ONLY by your still small, inner voice. Let go of your Mom’s, your Husband’s and your Boss’s dreams and find YOURS.”Â
- Tanya Dyer, Esq.
Simple step #3: Really, really look at your definition of
 success from this
year.Â
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Where did your success standard come from? Be skeptical.
I could make millions per year. Know
what? I realized recently I don’t want to do the things necessary for THAT success.
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That’s not MY success.
I really like serving a handful of clients a year.
Success is personal.
Make sure next year’s clearly defined successes are only set by you.
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