Who is Consistently Excellent At Loving You? (And Who Is On Again/Off Again) 💕🥰

Published: Wed, 04/19/23

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Are You Giving Extra to Your BEST Things?

We have a tendency to ignore things that are going well and put our focus and energy into things that are spiraling out of control.

(Even if we can’t “save them.")

This week, love those who love you CONSISTENTLY.

Who is Consistently Excellent At Loving You? (And Who Is On Again/Off Again) 💕🥰

“Real Love is A Choice Made Repeatedly.”

Tanya Dyer, Esq.

Alphas, this is not just for the married or the happily married.

If you are single, ask yourself if you have been Continuously Excellent about loving yourself? If you have, then you “feed yourself” this week.

If not…

FLIP SIDE TO NOTICE:
Who is On Again/Off Again with your Love?

Spoiler Alert! Odds are high that may be YOU!

Now back to feeding that excellent supporter you have…

Is it your spouse? Business partner? Bestie from college? Hairdresser? Coach? Who is ALWAYS there for you?

Find a way to acknowledge their excellence this week. Make time for that quick catch up.

Idea: You CAN connect with someone for 5-10 minutes IF you just tell them at the start, that’s ALL you have right now, but you don’t want to wait.

Example Text/Call Opening: Do you have 10 mins to catch up right now? I’ve missed your awesomeness and want to plug back in with you and not wait another day for a perfect moment.

And please feed them in THEIR love language. (Everyone may’ve already read this but if you haven’t - Read “The 5 Love Languages”. You can thank me later!)

If they like words, speak or write. Gifts? Use the fancy paper and ribbons. Quality time? 10 minutes can count.

I have upped my self care standard and been consistently

excellent at ME lately, so I’m feeding myself!

I’m looking around for something my mind wants to “play” with. Basically, a toy as a reward!

Now, what about your weak spot for love?

The people who are mercurial - Notice. Notice. Notice ladies.

How do they make you feel? Are you being consistent and full time awesome for them, while they are being dodgey and part time with you?

That’s NOT ABOUT THEM.

Never treat someone as a priority who treats YOU as an option.

I love you. That’s about you.

Notice the part timers and see if you need to cut some “non-essential staff.”

But remember! Feed your Excellent love givers FIRST. They deserve it.

In Joy,

P.S. People don’t have to be around you every day to be continuously excellent. Be sure to notice and feed those folks too!

My GP (general doctor) is my freaking hero! Continuously Excellent whenever needed.

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 25-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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