⚡The 4 Words of Power Series: Dominion

Published: Wed, 09/01/21

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Let's Talk About Words of POWER

This month I want to teach you to use 4 words that have an energy of their own. These are words I'll give you my definitions for and your task is to USE them each week.

We are going to start with one of my FAVORITE words on the planet...ready?

Dominion

I cannot even SAY this word without pausing first.

It is underutilized. Undervalued. Under-spoken.

And just WHY is it so unappreciated? Because we have FORGOTTEN that the Universe GAVE us authority over things in our lives.

We have forgotten that we were made in the image and likeness of our creator meaning we can CREATE.

We have learned to live like pinballs in the machine. We bump into this and that and then bounce off, spinning crazily. We try our best to aim for the "high score" but often miss.

Dominion means you have control (your favorite thing right?) over the external events in your life.

Now wait a minute! Haven't I taught you to STOP trying to control what's outside of you? Yes. When you do it DIRECTLY. You can control what's outside of you, by controlling what you do INSIDE of you.

Dominion At Work From The Inside Out

You wield your Dominion by your FOCUS. Guess what you focus on? What you are AFRAID OF. We attract and create what we fear so much faster and easier than what we love because fear draws & holds more of your attention!

Example: In 2008, I tore my Achilles tendon on my right ankle playing semi professional racquetball (I have some National Championships and U.S. Open medals, so I was pretty competitive).

When I tore that Achilles, it was brutal. Despite what the doctor said, it took almost a year for me to recover. Guess what I focused on that entire year? The fear of tearing my healthy left Achilles tendon.

So guess what happened a little over a year after my first Achilles rupture?

You guessed it! I tore the left one. As I was sitting on the floor of the court in pain, I noticed something alarming… I felt… Relieved. Ugh.

Do you see the Dominion there??

I influenced those events to give myself exactly what I was afraid of.

My focus had been relentlessly on “I don’t want to tear my left Achilles tendon“.

Because I have dominion over external events, I got exactly what I focused on endlessly – a torn left tendon.

I’ve gotten better about this but I just made the same mistake this past weekend. I live in a rural area in South Australia three hours from most shopping, doctors and our “big” city of Adelaide.

I had a dentist appointment but they didn’t finish working in the first visit. They squeezed me back in Saturday morning. To my shame, I was actually running 4 mins late. I was consumed by the fact that I was going to be 4 mins late when they had graciously fit me in in.

How consumed was I? So consumed that even though I was holding my phone‘s GPS in my hand, I somehow managed to go the “wrong way".

I ended up entering the M2 highway (one of those highways that has NO freaking exit for 10 minutes!) You CANNOT make this up!

Because I was obsessing about being FOUR minutes late, I ended up being 18 minutes late. Dominion Ladies.

There is POWER in your REPEATED thoughts and feelings Alphas.

Repeated thoughts and feelings become your beliefs. Those beliefs dictate your actions and tell the Universe what to deliver to you.

I am here to remind you that you have DOMINION, start using it consciously.

In Joy,

P.S. Dominion. Seriously. Say it OUT LOUD. Slowly. Feel it? Think on it this week. Assume I'm right and you have way more control over events that you think.

We must manage that endless FEAR track playing in your head Alpha. That will change your life. ❤️

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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