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Have you ever heard the saying “If he likes you, you’ll know. If he dosen’t, you’ll be confused.” ?Â
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I’ve come across this saying multiple times in the years I’ve been coaching women towards healthy lasting love, and I can attest to the truth in these words.Â
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Essentially, you will know whether a man is invested in you - not only through his words, but more importantly, through his
actions.Â
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For example, in our early dating life, my man left his cuchy 1-bedroom apartment in a high-end part of town and moved to an apartment on the brink of caving in (with a roommate to boot!) 8 blocks from me, just to live closer to me and spare us both the public transportation nightmare of seeing one another.Â
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While this is sweet and yes my man is awesome, don’t think I’m special in this regard! This happens all. the. time.Â
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For example, I saw a YouTube video last week about climate change and the expert on the topic shared that he moved from a cooler part of the country to a hotter one - BECAUSE HE FELL IN LOVE.Â
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I share this to support you with EVIDENCE - evidence that what you want exists. Evidence that the kind of man you want is REAL.Â
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That you CAN experience a man who:Â
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đź’– Takes the lead and plans your datesÂ
đź’– Follows up and asks you out againÂ
đź’– Is willing to drive to your part of town to take you
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đź’– Is willing to move his location to be closer to you
đź’– Is willing to retire early to travel with you
đź’– Is CLEAR about what he
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đź’– Is honest about how he feelsÂ
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If you’re stuck in a place of confusion with the men you are dating, if you feel like you have to ask “where you stand” - hear me when I say this
one’s not for you.Â
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Even if it’s great when you’re together, if he’s got everything you’re looking for…Â
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❌ If he’s not communicating between datesÂ
❌ If he’s not answering your texts in a timely mannerÂ
❌ If he’s not pushing to see you againÂ
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... then it’s time to move on, and open yourself up to
meeting new men who will be quick to show you how they feel about you without question.Â
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These men exist, and one is looking for a woman like you right now!Â
Need help with this? Hit REPLY and let me know where
you’re stuck. I’d love to hear from you and help you out.Â
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XO BexÂ
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