Hello Love, 

What are the three most important things to have when it comes to navigating modern dating and finding the relationship of your dreams? 
 

While you might think luck, beauty or a big bank account, the truth is, these can only get you so far and often aren’t within your control. 

What IS within your control and more effective? 

💖 Your Vision 

💖 Your Mindset 

💖 And Your Skillset 
 

Not only are these three key elements within your control, they are also the building blocks of having a joyful and easeful dating life, and calling in the relationship you long for. 

I’ll break them down one by one: 

💖 Your Vision 

I’ve said this before, your vision is far more than a checklist of qualities you want in your partner. 

Your vision encompasses: 

✨ The kind of relationship you want to have with your Beloved 

✨ How you wish to feel and be treated in that relationship 

✨ The values, goals & lifestyle you wish to have in common 

💖 Your Mindset 
 

Your mindset is the thing that will make or break your dating practice; it’s the thing that will help prevent dating burnout, so that you can continue dating with joy and ease until you find the man who is ready to commit. 

Key components to a healthy dating mindset: 
 

✨ Love is a practice; be gentle and compassionate with yourself in the        process

✨ Release any attachment to the outcome, in service of being present 

✨ Believe in abundance; there is no ONE perfect partner for you but            rather MANY great candidates 
 

💖 Your Skillset 

Regardless of how good of a match you find, no healthy, secure relationship is without solid relational skills. Relational skills aren’t inherent, we’re not taught these in school or at an early age. It’s our responsibility to learn these skills and put them into practice, even with candidates you know aren’t your person. (See Love is a Practice). 

Skills for healthy, secure relating include: 

 ✨ Self Awareness 

✨ Emotional Intelligence 

✨ Empathy & Compassion 

✨ Vulnerability 

✨ Compassionate Communication 

If you know you fall short in any of these areas, REPLY and let me know! I’d love to support you with feedback and resources to point you in the right direction to get you closer to the love you desire. 

Here’s to your great love, 
Bex

PS: 

A quick note of encouragement: You don't have to have all the pieces perfectly put into place to find your person. Both my husband and I were unskillful in many ways when we first got together, but it didn't prevent us from finding each other, and it certainly didn't prevent us from building a secure relationship of more than 12 years. But we didn't do it alone! 

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