This week, Dr. Hawkins addresses what happens when a person uses counseling as a weapon to accuse, attack and label one's partner or mate. They take information that is intended to help them self-reflect and self-inspect, and instead use it to accuse their partner of the very things that are being revealed about themselves.

While not common, it does occasionally happen, particularly among those who are very high on the narcissistic spectrum.  In a way, it's not surprising since a key marker of narcissism is an absolute refusal to take ownership and responsibility for one's behaviors and instead shift the blame onto their partner.  Click the button below to hear what Dr. Hawkins has to say on this topic.