You've probably heard us talk a lot about interventions, and that's because they WORK! It's a powerful and effective tool for inviting change into your relationship. 

In this video, Dr. Hawkins sets the record straight on what interventions are, and what they are not.  An intervention is not an ultimatum or a threat. It doesn't mean you have to end the relationship if the person doesn't respond to the intervention.  An intervention is simply setting boundaries for what you are no longer willing to tolerate, coupled with an action plan for what you are going to do when your boundaries are not respected. Listen to Dr. Hawkins explain why intervention is not an all or nothing proposition.

"Our counselor was unable to see past his/her façade and 

didn't confront any of the real issues!" 

If this has been your past experience, we understand your concerns. Our clinicians have years of experience and training in recognizing covert abuse and breaking through defense mechanisms like denial, defensiveness and blame-shifting.  

We will start with a thorough assessment of the destructive patterns in your relationship and provide you with a clear plan for what it will take to heal and restore your relationship.  Our priority is to establish emotional safety first before beginning couples work.