THE NUMBER ONE REASON you are not seeing any real change in your relationship is because all the focus thus far has been on the behaviors, which are merely symptoms of the underlying root issues.
What are THE ROOT ISSUES then, that need to be addressed? They are the EMBEDDED ATTITUDES, PERCEPTIONS and BELIEFS that you are
not even aware of that are driving the behaviors. Until these underlying attitudes, perceptions and beliefs are uncovered and addressed, real,
long-term change will not occur.