Parents or grandparents are usually the ones to approach me for Failure to Launch coaching for young adults who are stuck and don’t appear to be moving to self-sufficiency. My heart goes out to them. By the time they come to me there is often a level of exasperation and emotion which is palpable. In most cases the young person has zero interest in being pushed into meeting regularly with a coach. It may be viewed as somewhat more acceptable than having to see a therapist, but often the young person is so entrenched in the current situation that anything that might disturb the equilibrium is seen as a threat...