“Work Smarter, Not Harder”: More than an annoying catchphrase?
Early on in our careers, we invest a lot of time building credibility, which often involves putting in a lot of hours and “taking one for the team.” There comes a point in a person’s career where all those long hours and reputation-building begin to pay off. You’ve earned the right to a) give yourself credit for what you’ve accomplished and b) scale back on certain
types of work in favor of promotable tasks that will advance your career. Some women have a hard time taking advantage of this opportunity to pivot and let go of the “outwork everyone else" ethic. When they don’t make this turn it begins to stymy their career progression, not to mention burn them out. But here’s the rub: there’s an odd sort of double-bind that women face related to workload – research tells us that women are penalized for saying “no” to tasks, but if they agree to more low-value work they are rewarded. Having lived this double bind, women have figured out a way to be more productive than men, but it’s exhausting.
The delicate needle to thread, then, is to center yourself in the power of the credibility that you’ve built when saying “no” to a request, but still demonstrate commitment to the team. For example, if you’re asked to draft a team email, you can say “no” to drafting it, but still offer to review someone else’s draft to provide your insights. This delicate balance becomes easier when you stand tall in the knowledge that you are worthy of
more strategic work and sponsorship from key members of leadership.
When saying “No” might actually help
We’ve talked about “non-promotable” work before – those tasks that don’t advance our
careers and are disproportionately doled out to women, especially women of color. Some food for thought: a social psychology
experiment highlights these counterintuitive results: if you refuse a request to perform non-promotable work from someone higher up in the food chain, you’ll be perceived as more competent, but potentially less of a team
player. Like the strategy above, the takeaway is not to take on too much non-promotable work, but to find ways of focusing your effort on promotable work that demonstrates competence and team connection.
For example, if your boss’ boss asks you to sit on a committee and offer
expertise you gained in a previous job, you can say, “No thank you. I think someone else would find that a great development opportunity. But I’d love to be on a committee where I can build skills and connections for the job I have today and the promotion I want for tomorrow.” This won’t always be possible, and into every career some amount of non-promotable work must fall. However, on balance you must negotiate ways to gain the experience and exposure that focusing on promotable work
affords you.
Quiet Quitting - the Privileged Choice
So let’s take the polar opposite of working doubly hard: hardly working. It seems that there’s one segment of society that is more comfortable with
doing the “bare minimum” at work (aka Quiet Quitting.) Studies show that young educated men were the most likely to “quiet quit” during the pandemic. Furthermore, during the pandemic, women were more likely to say they were putting in more effort than men. We think this points to a privilege advantage; if you are part of the predominant culture, then you are less concerned about the consequences of not toeing the line and overworking just to stay in the good graces of the privileged class. Members from non-privileged communities perceive they “don’t have a choice” to work less or set boundaries. These mindsets (feeling free to do less, as well as feeling the pressure to “do more”)
point to the stories we tell ourselves about what’s acceptable at work. InPower women recognize the privilege they have and they realize they must assert boundaries in workloads. They advocate for themselves and for others to ensure everyone gets their fair share of promotable work.
One thing is clear in reviewing the resources above, learning how to
say “no” and find ways to get ahead against biases that make us want to work harder, is hard work! Want some help distilling this info down to apply in your own life and career? Join us in the April 19th mastermind call where we’ll discuss strategies for working smarter, not harder!