Hi ,

You really have to start giving men more credit because they're much smarter than you make them out to be 😂

Don't help them weaponize their perceived incompetence lol

All this talk about men being simple or men speaking another language... sure, but it's not quite as you think.

Men know EXACTLY what we want. 

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Back to what I was saying...how do I know that men know what we want? 

Because they loveeeee to TALK about it. They love to paint this fantasy picture of the perfect future with you and get you so invested in the idea...but they rarely actually take any action to make it happen.

They'll say things like, "I'm looking for a serious relationship." "I care about loyalty and honesty," "I'm family oriented," "I want marriage..." "I'll treat you so well" blah blah blah and guess what? 

You get sooo happy because wow, finally a man who speaks your language and wants what you want, right? (WRONG!). We're taught that these are taboo topics so we don't like bringing it up first, we don't want to scare him away! But HE talked about it first, so that means he really cares...👀

No babe, take them as empty pretty words until you see concrete action. 

Otherwise, you get strung along with this fantasy he put in your head that you even start looking forward to it, then you start giving him wifey benefits and all when in actuality, you didn't get anything from him yet.

So why do men do this? It's because he knows that it gets you hopeful and excited about being with him.

That's the trap. 

Talk about reaping all the benefits with some cheap talk!

WAKE UP, hun!

Learn from men and stop getting played!

Shoulda, coulda, woulda means absolutely NOTHING until it actually happens. Sweet talking and cute words are meaningless when it's not paired with actions that give tangible results. 

"I wanted to take you on vacation" - ok, lets go. 

"I was gonna get you flowers" - ok, go get them now. 

"I was planning to make reservations" - ok, pick a day. 

"I believe in marriage and want to get married" - ok, what is your timeline?

"If I was your man, I'd spoil you rotten" - show me how, now. 

Stop getting your heart warmed over a few words and start looking at what he's actually doing.

Love you lots,

Your big sis - Nadeen 

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