Hi ,

Sometimes, it seems like things are going well and going along when you're dating a guy, but then he never has that conversation with you so you're not sure what you guys are. 

Do you ask him? Do you bring up the "what are we?" DTR talk? Should you?!

These moments cause so much unnecessary stress and anxiety. Especially when you start to feel like he's pulling away and losing interest. 

It bothers us so much to the point that we become a little obsessive and it's all we think about or all you talk about with your girl friends. 

I am going to share with you 2 ways you can handle this situation.

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Back to dealing with uncertainty when dating -

The way I see it, if YOU feel the need to define the relationship and he's giving you mixed signals, you need to take a step back. 

Because you already have your answer. 

Men know what they want and they will go after it. 

So if he's no longer chasing you, it means that he knows where he stands with you and he doesn't feel the need to put in any more effort. 

Get busy, go out with your girlfriends, decline the next date he asks you out on, and focus on living your best life. 

Don't be so available and be so prematurely committed!

Let him get curious and come back to you. If he doesn't, then more clarity on your answer. 

The second thing you have to do to avoid situations like this is to make sure that you are not putting all of your eggs in one basket. 

I know a lot of girls want to just "focus on getting to know one guy at a time" but you know what happens? You end up falling for him because you put all your time and energy on one guy. 

The higher the investment (your time and energy), the less likely you'll wanna let him go (even when there are red flags).  

All the things you think are special with him? All the sparks you feel? Of course they seem rare when it's the one person you're talking to. 

You are only dating and getting to know potential men who COULD BE your boyfriend and future husband. 

Why are you emotionally and physically committing (*ahem* restraining) yourself to him and cutting off all your options when your goal is to find the best person suitable for you to spend the rest of your life with? 

I know it can sound overwhelming to try to talk to different men, but it takes practice and an effective step by step framework.

Maybe you already know how to do this well, but if you feel like you need to learn the skills to effectively date without feeling overwhelmed, and keep him pursuing you...

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Love you lots,

Nadeen

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