Hi ,

There are 3 types of girlies who struggle with relationship issues:

1. Low self concept
2. Hyperindependent / masculine
3. Both

What does that mean?

Low self concept means low self love, which means low self worth, low self trust... LOW STANDARDS. This tends to manifest itself in toxic relationships, codependencies, abandonment issues... all sorts of problems related to not loving yourself enough.

The hyperindependent babe is the one who operates out of her masculine. She's the do it all, I got it, don't need no help, anything he can do I can do better - type of girl. This manifests itself in relationships with men who want to be taken care of, men with princess energy, the trophy boyfriends, and you end up leading the relationship.

Now the girls who have both of these issues are very common.

Most of us think that we dated sh*tty men or was taken advantage of because we didn't have high standards or know how to uphold the standards that we want so, that's what we work on.

But if you've only worked on elevating yourself and your standards, and the energy you put out and the way you're presenting yourself is still very masculine, you’re not gonna find the polarity balance you’re looking for. 

You can be a girl with the whole package and high self worth and high standards, but if you don’t know how to express your femininity or allow yourself to relax in your feminine state, a healthy masculine man is not gonna appear in your life. 

I see a lot of women get to this point where they've done all this work and they're still not attracting healthy masculine provider minded men and this is why!

You have to be the one to create that safe space for yourself and allow your softness to come out so that the man you want can actually identify and find you. 

Things that helped me lean into my feminine energy:

• Slowing down my life: I'm spending more time doing less things and really try to be in the moment
• Learning to receive help: Rather than reject help, I accept it and show my gratitude and appreciation
• Learning to love and appreciate women: Tossing out all pickme ways and mindsets to truly embrace and understand women
• Stop adding things onto my plate: Reserving my helpful energy for people who are truly worthy of my time and my help
• Working on my emotional intelligence: Learning how to respond in a tactful manner and control situations rather than react
• Changing my wardrobe and appearance: Dressing intentionally to look & feel pretty naturally changed my behavior

Try these out and let me know!

Love you,

Nadeen xx

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