Hi ,

When it comes to initial phone calls and first dates, it can be really stressful when you don't know what to talk about or how to talk to him. 

But these initial conversations are super important because it's where you determine if he meets your non-negotiables and if you even want to continue to get to know him without wasting more time.

I have 5 rules when it comes to talking to men in the dating stage. 

1. Don't argue with him

Most people don't argue to find the truth, they argue to win so they can say they are right. It honestly is a waste of time. You don't need to teach him, you don't need to waste your breath showing him how he is wrong. Of course, you're more than welcome to express your point of view, but that's different than arguing 😉

2. Don't prove yourself 

There are some people who are committed to misunderstanding you or they purposefully choose to take what you say the wrong way to get a reaction out of you. There's no need to prove yourself when you know who you are. If you are a girlie with high standards and you only accept princess treatment, you live by that - there's no explaining or telling a man that you expect princess treatment or that you're a high value woman. Recognize the situation and remove yourself.

3. Discover & explore

Rather than putting pressure on yourself to try to flirt or come up with things to say, see yourself as an explorer and you are learning about this new person. Always end your turn to talk with a question that encourages him to talk more about himself, and don't forget to compliment him.

You'll have to join The Elite Girl Secrets to learn in depth about #4 and #5 but let's just say that how he feels during the conversation is more important than what you chat about. 

We have four more days, . 

I'm really excited to teach you my step by step framework to capturing his heart, getting you your sweet provider minded man, and shift you from 50/50 dustyland to your spoiled wifey era 💍

Don't forget to use the secret code ELITE100 to get $100 off! 

Your big sis,

Nadeen xx.

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